Silviya'styling

Lately I've been thinking about the "ungrown child" inside us - how does it✩ affect our lives as adults?

We all carry within us a part of the child we were - the "ungrown child" that can often influence our reactions and relationships as adults. It makes us react emotionally, seeks attention or approval, and sometimes fears rejection.

How does it manifest itself?

Emotional reactivity: Strong reactions to minor situations.

Fear of rejection: Fear of being abandoned makes us vulnerable in love and friendships.

Avoidance of responsibility: Difficulty dealing with serious tasks because the child still lives inside us who wants to escape.

Approval Seeking: The constant need for confirmation that we are good enough.

How to cope?
Self-awareness: Recognize the moments when the "ungrown child" is driving your behavior.
Caring for the inner child: Psychotherapy and emotional work can help you heal.
Self-Love: Give yourself the love and support you may have missed as a child.

Healing the "ungrown child" means taking back control of your life and creating healthier and more fulfilling relationships. It all starts from within!
What do you think about your inner child? Would you add your thoughts?

"People think they can fall in love only when they meet a decent person - nonsense! You'll never find one. People think that they will be able to fall in love only when they find a perfect man or woman - nonsense! You will never find them, because a perfect woman or a perfect man does not exist, or if they did, your love would not move them at all.
Don't demand perfection, because then you won't find any love flowing within you. On the contrary, you will become quite unloving. People who demand perfection are very unloving, neurotic people. Even if they find a lover, they demand perfection, love is destroyed because of this demand.
When a man falls in love with a woman, or a woman with a man, requirements immediately come! The woman begins to demand that the man become perfect simply because he fell in love with her. As if he had committed some sin! Now he has to be perfect, now he has to throw away all flaws - just for this woman! Now he can't just be human. Either he must become a superman, or - a false person, a fraud. And because it's very hard to become a superman, you become a fraud. People start pretending, playing roles, playing games.
Remember, never demand perfection. You have no right to demand anything from anyone. If someone falls in love with you, be grateful, but don't ask for anything - because they don't have to love you! If someone loves you - it's a miracle, be in awe of this miracle!
Love is a function - as natural as breathing. When you love someone, don't start with the demands; so you close the door from the start. Don't expect anything. If something comes, feel gratitude. If nothing comes, then it should not come and need not come.”

Osho

"Ironically, when you come to terms with the fact that the purpose of life is not happiness, but rather experience and growth, happiness comes as a natural consequence. When you stop looking for it as a goal, it will find its way to you." "

Unknown

End of the blonde era hairdo...

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Such a pleasure having hair❤️💯 thank you for your trust in me all these years! 💗💗

"The greatest victory is to learn to live with yourself. To accept yourself. With all your mistakes and failures. Each of us wants to be different, to be different, to be better. At the end of in the end we have to accept ourselves as we are."
Audrey Hepburn

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After 15 years I managed to convince her to get her hair done 💯✅

" Ти само се смири и вярвай ! В светлото. В чистото. В доброто. Пусни страха и болката. Не съди ! Благодари ! Обичай ! Помоли се за другите. След това за себе си. Цени тези, които се грижат за сърцето ти. Пази душата. Много я пази и времето ще ти изпрати всичко от което се нуждаеш ! " Ирина Габровска

Death is not the greatest loss in life. The greatest loss is what dies in us while we are alive.

"Обещай си: 😍
Да бъдеш силен и нищо да не е в състояние да наруши вътрешния ти мир! 😇
Да излъчваш и внушаваш здраве, щастие и благосъстояние на всеки, с когото общуваш!
Да накараш всичките си приятели да почувстват, че притежават нещо много ценно!
Винаги да гледаш от слънчевата страна на живота и активно да прилагаш оптимизма си!
Да мислиш само най-доброто, да работиш само за най-доброто и да очакваш само най-доброто!
Да се ентусиазираш от успеха на другите също толкова, колкото и от собствените си успехи!
Да забравяш грешките на миналото и да фокусираш вниманието си върху великите постижения на бъдещето!
Да имаш винаги ведро изражение и да даряваш усмивка на всеки срещнат, независимо дали е познат или непознат!😀
Да отделяш извънредно много време за самоусъвършенстване, така че да не ти остава време да критикуваш другите!
Да си максимално силен, за да допуснеш мрачни мисли, твърде благороден, за да се гневиш, твърде уверен, за да се страхуваш и извънредно щастлив, за да позволиш присъствието на беди и проблеми!
Да имаш високо мнение за себе си и да заявиш този факт пред света, но не с гръмки думи, а чрез велики постъпки!
Да живееш с вярата, че целият свят е на твоя страна и те подкрепя при условие, че си верен на най-доброто в себе си!
Обещай си... и не забравяй след това да ги изпълниш!"😍

Джо Витале

Thank you ❤️