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Things You Shouldn't Do To a Lady You're Not Married To;

Let’s dive into it 👇

1. Stop Loving Beyond Your Control. One sided love kills.

2. Don't Post Her Unless It's Even

3. Stop Thinking She Can Survive Without You

4. Stop Spoiling Her With Money Just So You Can Keep Her

5. Never Take Up Her Father's Responsibilities .It always end in tears.

6. Do Not Ask or Demand That She Should Be Loyal

7. Do Not Be Too Emotionally Attached to Her.The time of break up, it will be hard for you to move on.

You'll always find yourself running back to her, and in her palms, she will use you like a piece of trash.

"She cheated on me but I still love her." — Emotional attachment is the cause.

There's a lady cheated on her boyfriend and got pregnant. Her boyfriend forgave her, took responsibility for the pregnancy, rented her an apartment, yet the lady cheated on him again with the same guy.

You call this f00lishness, but the main cause is EMOTIONAL ATTACHMENT.

When you're TOO attached, it becomes hard to leave. Even when you want to.

Men, Stay Guided.

Date someone matured enough to say "Babe calm down ❤️❤️let's settle this, am not ready to loose you, honestly I don't like what you did and I will appreciate if you stop it, cause it hurts me 😭"... cool right?

Instead of someone who will go out there acting childishly and ignoring you. They won't stop there, they will run to Facebook, WhatsApp and all social media platforms with stupid quotes .😏😏😏🙂

If you are matured enough, you will realise that Nowadays Relationships are not all about dating someone who is handsome, beautiful or dating your type. It's all about dating someone who really loves and cherish you, someone who cares and appreciates you and the relationship❤️❤️.
Someone who is ready to build the future with you.

Never build a relationship to impress friends and family NEVER!! Such relationship will fail in no time. You don't owe anyone anything.

4 TYPES OF WOMEN THAT WILL MESS UP YOUR LIFE IF YOU’RE NOT CAREFUL**

Listen up, Men.

Some women don’t break your heart.
They break your focus.
They drain your bank account.
They wreck your reputation.
And they bury your future while smiling in your face.

If you’re not wise enough to cut them off early, you’ll spend your prime years rebuilding from disasters you could’ve dodged.

Here’s the breakdown:

1️⃣ THE DRAINER — SHE’LL EMPTY YOUR WALLET, THEN YOUR SOUL

She’s not in love with you — she’s in love with what you can provide.

Vacations.
Designer bags.
“Soft life” fantasies with zero contribution.

She’ll gaslight you with: “A real man should provide.”

Translation: “You fund my lifestyle while I give you just enough attention to keep you hooked.”

Once she’s comfortable?
The gratitude dies.
The demands rise.

And when your pockets run dry?
She’s out — calling you “a changed man.”

Nah.
You just stopped feeding a parasite.

2️⃣ THE DELAYER — SHE’LL STRING YOU ALONG, DRAIN YOUR YEARS, THEN DITCH YOU

She’s always “not ready.”
But she’s emotionally attached to her ex.
Flirting with her coworker.
Trauma-dumping in every group chat.

She loves your attention, not your direction.
She wants your loyalty, not your leadership.

She’ll trap you in a situationship with weak promises:
“Let’s just see where this goes.”

Spoiler: Nowhere.

While you’re stuck waiting for clarity?
Your mission’s dying.

3️⃣ THE DISTRACTOR — SHE’LL TURN YOUR PURPOSE INTO AN AFTERTHOUGHT

She’s hot.
She’s reckless.
She’s chaos in heels.

And you mistake lust for love.

Now you’re skipping workouts.
Missing opportunities.
Wasting nights chasing dopamine instead of discipline.

She won’t build with you.
She’ll bleed you dry.

And when it falls apart?
She’ll laugh and say: “You were never serious anyway.”

4️⃣ THE DECEIVER — SHE’LL MAKE YOU A FATHER TO A CHILD THAT AIN’T YOURS

She calls you “king.”
But won’t do a DNA test.

Fake peace.
Fake submission.
Long enough to lock you down.

This morning a child went to a burial ground and threw his school bag at his mom's grave and emotionally said in tears;

""Enough mummy! You have slept enough, wake up, come with me to school tomorrow and give an answer to my teacher who likes saying -your mother is very careless, she sends you to school without lunch box, she doesn't even dress you up properly and neither does she make you do your homework. Life without you mom is not the same.

Teacher's please, tame your tongues as you talk to your learners.
Life without a mother is painful... 🤗