Hephzi Tips of Advice

What would you have done?

Mine in the comments section 👇

So Gen Z are children born from 1997-2012 🤔🤔

Meaning the youngest Gen Z is 14 years now

Gen Alpha are children born from 2013-2024

While Gen Beta children are children from 2025...

We all categorize all of them as Gen Z, whereas Gen Z are not the youngest.

Which one are you?

My wedding was supposed to take place in March this year. However, in November, my father-in-law passed away, and his funeral was held in December, just three weeks after his death.

I genuinely wanted to attend the funeral, but I was unable to secure leave from my employer. The notice was too short, and when I accepted the job, it was clearly stated that leave would not be granted during the December and Easter periods due to operational demands and despite explaining my situation and making every effort I could, my request was denied.

I informed my fiancé, and at first, he seemed to understand and I supported him financially for the funeral but eerything changed when my mother-in-law called me. She told me that if I truly wanted to be part of their family, I had to be present at her husband's funeral. I respectfully explained my circumstances, but before I could finish, she hung up the phone.

I immediately called my fiancé but instead of supporting me, he asked, if it were my father, wouldn't you find a way to attend? I replied that the situations were different because if it were my own father, my employer might be willing to make an exception. That was when he said the words that changed everything, he said no presence, no wedding.

At first, I thought he was speaking out of grief and anger. I never imagined he meant it. Unfortunately, he did, the wedding was called off.

My family attempted to intervene, but every effort was shut down. Eventually, my father advised me to accept the loss and move on with my life. It was one of the hardest things I have ever had to do, but with time, I began to heal and accept that the relationship was over.

Then, on May 20th, my ex-fiancé called me and his words shocked me.

He said he had expected better from me as a future wife, according to him, a good wife would have continued begging his family until they accepted her apology. He then informed me that he had thought about everything, decided to forgive me, and was ready to move forward with the wedding. He went on to say that he had already fixed a new wedding date for August and that we needed to begin preparations immediately.

I was stunned because what is this one saying. I'm loved at home oo then without hesitating, I told him I was no longer interested and that I was done with the relationship.

His response was even more shocking and I had myself to blame. In his words directly, he said he was not done and that I had no right to say I was done.

I ended the call and blocked but instead of him to accept, he went to my father's house. My father called me shortly afterward and informed me that my ex-fiancé had arrived at our family home with the bride price and the items from the marriage list he had previously rejected. In front of everyone present, my father told him that as far as our family was concerned, I was no longer available and had moved on with my life. He told him to take his load and go away but that did not stop him.

Since then, he has continued to visit my family repeatedly. His mother has also continued to call and disturb me despite my lack of interest in any further communication ma

At this point, I am beginning to feel that there is something deeper behind their persistence, what concerns me most is the belief that after ending our wedding, months later he could simply decide to forgive me, choose a new wedding date, and expect me to fall back in line as though my feelings, choices, and consent did not matter.

I am now considering taking legal action because the constant visits, calls, and refusal to accept my decision are becoming increasingly troubling.

I would appreciate any advice, thank you ma.

Happy Sunday my dear Facebook family

How could someone mix faeces together with her beans for frying akara 🙆🙆🙆

This is wickedness!

See if God wants to make a way for you, it doesn't take him anything.
People will still think you got it by connection, because God doesn't do the usual thing that human beings can do. He specialize in what humans has limitation over

All grace needs wisdom

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