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It is a sad reality, but men must understand this truth.
So many married men see their wives as rivals.
They hide everything from them, especially their investments.

They make sure they are in total control of everything because they don't want the wife to ever leave the marriage with anything they think belongs to them.

Sometimes, I wonder and ask: Why?

It is so heartbreaking that some men hide so much from their wives but expose everything to a side chick, a woman who has nothing in common with his future.

When it’s the end of the month, he walks happily with the side chick to the bank.
When he goes on a business trip, he carries her along.
They drive around town together to every appointment.

But if his wife proposes an idea to him, he rejects it immediately, regardless of whether the idea was good or not.

In his mind, a man who listens to his wife has lost his dignity as the man of the house. Unfortunately, that same side chick is the one secretly dictating his decisions.

Sometimes I ask myself: Is this man under a spell, or is he in his right mind?

At times, it is the side chick who decides how much money he should give his wife daily or monthly.

She makes him believe that his wife is demanding more than she needs.
Imagine a free woman outside teaching someone’s husband how to deal with his own wife!

When he returns home, he starts insulting his wife, telling her she spends too much and is out of control.

This is exactly how side chicks who want to become the main wife operate.

The side chick pretends to be very economical and easy-going, while indirectly pushing the husband to care less for his family.
She knows full well that this will push the wife to complain and become angry.

So the husband will say his wife has become toxic and disrespectful.
Before the man realizes it, the side chick’s plan has worked perfectly, and he starts chasing his innocent wife away.

Sadly, what he gives to a woman outside for her pleasure is often equivalent to what he gives his wife for the entire household, including his own children.

There are so many men who, if they were to die suddenly today, their wives or families would struggle to identify their wealth.

They wouldn't know where the land is or where the money is kept.
Little do they know that there is a stranger somewhere (side chick) who knows every secret about his riches.

I remember a colleague of mine who had an accident and died.
It was at the end of the month period for salary payments.

His wife was unable to collect his salary because she had no information.
He had never shared his secret bank codes with her.

A few days later, rumors started circulating that only his side chick knew his secret codes. What a tragedy!

Not only that, many side chicks have escaped with a man's money while the wife didn't even believe her husband had a penny.

These men are secretive at home but show everything to the woman outside. I believe such a man is just wicked.

Even if you think you hate your wife, always remember she has done a lot for you.
For the sake of your children, that woman deserves clarity.

Many men look at their wives as objects of no value, while they value a stranger who has no long-term stake in their life.

Men has to understand this!
A side chick will never use your money to take care of your children if you are no more; she will use it to enjoy life with another man.

Only your wife can do that.

By hiding your wealth from your wife; you are being a fool.
You are leaving your own blood, your children to suffer in poverty while a stranger laughs with your hard-earned sweat.

Stop building your life with people who will not be there to cry at your funeral.

If you trust a stranger more than the mother of your children, you are already a failed man.

Don’t let your legacy end up in the hands of a thief. Change now!
is a sad reality, but men must understand this truth.
So many married men see their wives as rivals.
They hide everything from them, especially their investments.

They make sure they are in total control of everything because they don't want the wife to ever leave the marriage with anything they think belongs to them.

Sometimes, I wonder and ask: Why?

It is so heartbreaking that some men hide so much from their wives but expose everything to a side chick, a woman who has nothing in common with his future.

When it’s the end of the month, he walks happily with the side chick to the bank.
When he goes on a business trip, he carries her along.
They drive around town together to every appointment.

But if his wife proposes an idea to him, he rejects it immediately, regardless of whether the idea was good or not.

In his mind, a man who listens to his wife has lost his dignity as the man of the house. Unfortunately, that same side chick is the one secretly dictating his decisions.

Sometimes I ask myself: Is this man under a spell, or is he in his right mind?

At times, it is the side chick who decides how much money he should give his wife daily or monthly.

She makes him believe that his wife is demanding more than she needs.
Imagine a free woman outside teaching someone’s husband how to deal with his own wife!

When he returns home, he starts insulting his wife, telling her she spends too much and is out of control.

This is exactly how side chicks who want to become the main wife operate.

The side chick pretends to be very economical and easy-going, while indirectly pushing the husband to care less for his family.
She knows full well that this will push the wife to complain and become angry.

So the husband will say his wife has become toxic and disrespectful.
Before the man realizes it, the side chick’s plan has worked perfectly, and he starts chasing his innocent wife away.

Sadly, what he gives to a woman outside for her pleasure is often equivalent to what he gives his wife for the entire household, including his own children.

There are so many men who, if they were to die suddenly today, their wives or families would struggle to identify their wealth.

They wouldn't know where the land is or where the money is kept.
Little do they know that there is a stranger somewhere (side chick) who knows every secret about his riches.

I remember a colleague of mine who had an accident and died.
It was at the end of the month period for salary payments.

His wife was unable to collect his salary because she had no information.
He had never shared his secret bank codes with her.

A few days later, rumors started circulating that only his side chick knew his secret codes. What a tragedy!

Not only that, many side chicks have escaped with a man's money while the wife didn't even believe her husband had a penny.

These men are secretive at home but show everything to the woman outside. I believe such a man is just wicked.

Even if you think you hate your wife, always remember she has done a lot for you.
For the sake of your children, that woman deserves clarity.

Many men look at their wives as objects of no value, while they value a stranger who has no long-term stake in their life.

Men has to understand this!
A side chick will never use your money to take care of your children if you are no more; she will use it to enjoy life with another man.

Only your wife can do that.

By hiding your wealth from your wife; you are being a fool.
You are leaving your own blood, your children to suffer in poverty while a stranger laughs with your hard-earned sweat.

Stop building your life with people who will not be there to cry at your funeral.

If you trust a stranger more than the mother of your children, you are already a failed man.

Don’t let your legacy end up in the hands of a thief. Change now!

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*SHUT THE DOOR OF RELATIONSHIP GENTLY, DONT SLAM IT, YOU MAY NEED TO USE IT LATER IN LIFE*

Friends, I put it to you today that relationship is a currency.*

Every man needs another man to move up and that man may be the neighbour you look down on, maybe the taxi driver you so despise or even the house help you think is a nobody today.*

Relationship is a stream of income. Everything in life actually reproduces on the basis of relationship. Those we know in life matter.*

Most of us are talented but we need a cupbearer that will tell Pharaoh that there's a Joseph that can interpret dreams.*
*We need our old school mates irrespective of their status today.*

Hook up with your class mates in the primary, secondary and tertiary schools alumni.*

There are some heights you may never get to in life until someone tells someone about you even in church or mosque.*

Therefore, shut the door of relationships gently.*

You may need to use it tomorrow.*

Let us take our relationships seriously. Even if you meet online

Someone said the day was stopped fighting her co-wife because of their husband was the day their eldest/first wife died after a brief illness in a general hospital In the Evening. Before they could bring her co**se home, it was already past 7-8pm so they had to leave her co**se till the next day before she was buried.

The bone of contention here is, she said while their Iyale/uwargida's co**se was in her room with some of their family members, their husband called her to his room upstairs and shamelessly told her he wanted s*x. She said at first it sounded like her ear was paining her but when he repeated himself, that was when she understood he wasn't joking.

She asked him how is that even possible when his eldest wife is yet to be buried but the husband insisted that he needed her that night. She said she bluntly refused him that night while asking him if he could do that to her if she was in their eldest wife's shoes. She left his room to join the few family members who came to spend the night in their house with mixed feelings.

She said since that day, na only her know where she place their husband for her heart and she no dey allow jealousy or husband matter join she and her co-wives no matter the provocation cos their husband married another woman 3months after the death of their Iyale/first wife.

The question I keep asking myself is, does he have any feelings for her at all? Abi the love don die cos for him gbola to rise that night alone shows man no really like her.

Na this story make me remember the adage which says, if you kpai because of a man or woman, thousands of men/women go follow am match your grave.

DEAR SISTERS.. MARRY A MAN WITH COMMON SENSE..

MARRY A MAN that has SENSE enough to know that PAYING your BRIDE PRICE or DOWRY is not EQUAL to BUYING you..

MARRY a MAN who has SENSE enough to know that MARRYING you is not DOING you a FAVOR..

MARRY a MAN that has SENSE enough to know that you POSE to have CRAMPS and MOOD SWINGS during your MONTHLY CYCLE and should not use it against you..

MARRY a MAN who has SENSE enough to know that after CHILDBIRTH, you are POSED to have STRETCH MARKS, BIG STOMACH, SAGGED BREASTS, not too GOOD SHAPE and he shouldn't because of that compare you to a SWEET 16 and CHEAT on you. A MAN that understands that your SAGGED BREASTS and STRETCH MARKS are signs of MOTHERHOOD (although you can work it out and be back in SHAPE which is proper)..

MARRY a MAN who has SENSE enough to know that as a WOMAN you also have a RIGHT to say NO to SËX at times and if he must have his way where there seems to be no way, he should at least try to make you HAPPY and put you in the MOOD..

MARRY a MAN who has SENSE enough to know that there are times you are just too TIRED to COOK and him taking to EAT OUT or him COOKING for you and for the FAMILY that day to SAVE you the STRESS is not a TABOO..

MARRY a MAN who has SENSE enough to know that you have a RIGHT to VOICE out your FRUSTRATION, a RIGHT to AGREE and DISAGREE and a RIGHT to AIR your OPINIONS..

MARRY a MAN who has SENSE enough to know that you deserve to hear SORRY from him and he's OBLIGED to PLEAD and not use his HEADSHIP as a means to ESCAPE saying SORRY..

MARRY a MAN who has SENSE enough to know that HITTING a WOMAN is a CRIME and TABOO against GOD and HUMANITY..

MARRY a MAN who LOVES your SOUL, not just your BODY. MARRY a MAN who ENJOYS TALKING to you even without TOUCHING your BODY, not someone who cannot TALK to you without TOUCHING you..

May you not MARRY your ENEMY.