Elevate With Glory

Marriage should not be your only target in life as a woman,you need to be financially capable on your own,I'm tired of seeing 18-25 years old girls crying over abusive partners and how they can't leave because they don't have money or because of their kids.

At this age and stage of your life,you should be focused in your studies or handwork and a way to become better for yourselves.

You are 20 and married to a man of 50 years for what exactly,no money no love no nothing,just because your mother said or because you want to see who will feed you.

Some of your parents will even use you as a tool of compensation for one goodwill or the other and you will accept.

The kind of traumatising post,anonymous and even messages I get this days is very worrisome,you won't even drop a comment without women replying you on how the need help,on how a man abandoned them and their kids on how they have not eaten,sometimes they will even send you friend request and immediately you accept it they will start explaining how everything is going down with them,i still help if i have💔 😢

There's no amount of pressure or situations that will make me to choose certain things and people,I'm not one to be forced to take decisions that won't favour me,if you like talk from now to 10 years.some of us have faced circumstances that could make us say let's take whatever life throws at us but NEVER will I take it.

If you like keep associating with people who advises you to marry at 23 or be single till forever with the mentality that no one will marry you at 35 years then you are in trouble,most of those 30+ are more successful and even married and you small girl of 20 years have not make your hair since 3yrs now,some of your families were doing well for you people yet all you want to achieve is anyhow marriage with a man that won't allow his own sister to make such decisions.

That is why the leave adults to marry you girls because you people are easily deceived and manipulated.

Some of my then classmates in secondary school married good and intentional men and each time I see them here I'm always proud of them,yet it didn't work same way with some of them,you can suffer with a man and he becomes better and remain with you but not in all cases,

Master the act of personal development,work hard for yourself, learn a skill,go to school or read and study online become an asset and valuable for yourself, have something to offer,it will save you from alot
Always aspire to be better for yourself🙏🙌

Have a great day 😍

Ladies, stop locking yourself indoors and expecting destiny to knock on your door. 😌

Go out. Attend events. Visit nice places when you can. Join communities. Network. Try that business seminar, church program, brunch, hangout, or social gathering. Sometimes, the opportunities, connections and quality people you’re praying for are not hiding in your house.

You cannot meet successful people if you never place yourself in rooms where growth happens. You cannot attract a better life while staying in the same environment every single day.

And no, this is not about chasing men,it’s about expanding your world. When you expose yourself to better environments, you learn more, grow more, and naturally attract better friendships, opportunities, and yes… even good men.

A soft, beautiful life requires exposure. Step outside. Be seen. Be social. Your next connection could change your life. ✨

You’re not stuck — you’re just inconsistent.
The life you want is on the other side of discipline not excuses.

Show up. Even when you don’t feel like it.
Create. Even when no one is clapping yet.
Stay focused. Even when distractions look more fun.

Your future is watching your daily habits… what are you showing it today?