CT Manja

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Being a woman is not easy. Follow my journey of being a mom of a 4 boys, a mom of an autistic kid an

05/11/2024

So abt all this debate regarding ITEs etc etc. I am not siding with anybody. This is my own pov. I believed that everyone has own pov and if they want to share it, share it respectfully.
No need to be rude and disrespectful.

Knowledge is not equivalent to paper qualifications. Learning a recipe is also gaining knowledge. Learning to sew is also unique eventhough no thesis is involved.

To learn something, be it baking or getting a PhD, we need lots of self motivation and positive attitude with a strong will to improve our ownselves. Whether you are in Secondary Sch, or in ITE or in Poly or in JC or in Uni, everyone need all these just to study.

However, the viral post was about marrying with someone who is of "lower" education. Given the nature of his job, I am sure he has seen hundreds of cases whereby some men does not provide for their family properly.

There are a few things to take note of here. All of us here are mature adults so please read this with an open mind.

Out of 10 ITE graduates or school dropouts, how many of them are able to soar up high if they do not have any will to have a better life? We know ITE is good now and can provide amazing opportunities for upgrading. How many of them took the opportunity?

All of us have heard of stories of people who managed to make something out of themselves despite having no paper qualifications right?
But all of us have also heard of stories where husbands are just sh****ad lazy and expect the wives to pay for everything too, right?????

It is not about ITE or Poly or NUS. It is about each individual.

Next, we can also look at what we meant by a "better" life. Everyone sees "better" differently. In a marriage, this "better" should be aligned.

If the wife wants to travel all the time, but the husband earns $3k per month, then this will definitely cause disagreements. "Why can't you earn more?" "Because you dont have a diploma?"
But what if he cannot even afford to buy diapers or milk? And what if he dont even care to work extra hard to find extra money because he dont even have any intention to change his life?

The thing is, usually all of us know who we are marrying. Afterall, our religion also tell us to do a background check before marrying.

In fact, our religion also says that a man should marry a woman of the same standard as him. I am not sure of the right words etc. But this is the gist of it. If a man decided to marry a woman who is "richer" or "higher" than him, he has to make sure that he is able to give her the same or better support as of her parents.

As a mom of a special needs boy who may not even work properly later and also giving my support to one of my boys who decided not to pursue nursing anymore, this issue makes my mind work overtime haha.

Like i said before, no matter what we decide is good for us, He is the best planner. Someone with ITE cert may be happier than someone who has a NUS degree. But it can also be vice versa. So accept that fact.

Believe in qadha and qadr but never stop IKHTIAR. Do'a, redha, tawakkal won't work without ikthtiar. Wallahualam....

~ CT Manja

14/12/2023

"I have a rich husband. I do not have to work. I gave all my commission to my missionary", said a Diamond leader who was earning USD15K per month.
The power of money. If you are visionary, you can see the power. If you are not, all you do with money is buying Chanel.
Well, I guess that's better than having no money but still buying Chanel.
A few people told me this - I do not need to earn so much. I have enough.
Of course you have enough. For yourself. For your family. Maybe you have enough for your siblings. Do you have enough for the community? Is giving $10 everytime you go to the mosque enough?
Islam encourages us to provide for ourselves, followed by our small circle and then followed by the community. Thus, we do need more in order to give more.
Actually, i never think of this until that lady told me abt her giving away her commission. It made me wake up. It made me think abt what money can do.
Money can do things that we never even think of doing. Who would ever think of buying a building for the orphans?
When there's opportunity to earn more, go for it. Because life is not just about Chanels.

Photos from CT Manja's post 14/09/2023

Tired eyes...my poor tired eyes...
Why are you so tired?

Do you know about "computer vision syndrome" or "digital eye strain"?

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Our eyes may have to work harder trying to read smaller words and we also blink lesser than we should when we are looking at our smartphones!

Eye Strain Symptoms -

Sore or irritated eyes
Trouble focusing
Dry or watery eyes
Blurred or double vision
Increased sensitivity to light
Pain in the neck, shoulders, or back

Take good care of your eyes because you will need them as long as you live!

Here are some tips -

- use a glare filter for your screen
- every 20 minutes, look at something 20 feet away for 20 seconds
- Apply a washcloth soaked in warm water to tired, dry eyes (keep your eyes closed).
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Photos from CT Manja's post 05/07/2023

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Photos from CT Manja's post 11/04/2023

Untung nya rakyat Malaysia. Dua set ni harga asal rm800++ tapi skrg cuma rm475.50 je.
Amazing sangat.
Hanya utk yg belum pernah jadi ahli Young Living sahaja.

Kalau set Serenity tu, sesuai sangat utk isu2 emosi. Contoh emosi anak yg tak suke gi sekolah. Atau utk emosi sang suami yg baran.
Atau mungkin u nak hasben u belikan beg yg harga nye *& #^@^ je...boleh la guna Joy utk dia🤪🤪

Kalau set Active Life pulak, sesuai sangat utk kuatkan fizikal tu. Setiap eo dlm set ni ade lebih dari 5 kegunaan. Memang berbaloi la.

Bila lagi nak beli kan???? Da murah da niii..

Siap ada diffuser ketupat lak tu.

Jom PM.

27/03/2023

All those decisions we made when we were 15, actually matters. No matter how stupid those decisions are, they shaped us today. All our adult decisions are based on our own childhood and teenage years experiences, be it directly or indirectly.

The friends we chose as adults for example. The tolerance we have, the patience we have, the understanding we have...everything depends on how we grew up.

We made mistakes at 15 so we can be better at 25. We made mistakes at 25 so we can be better at 35. At every junction of our lives, mistakes are unavoidable.

Sometimes, we need others to point out our mistakes. We may be clouded with ego, arrogance, love, or whatever, until we may not see our mistakes.

Mistakes are made for a reason. Moving on after making a mistake takes a lot of guts and determination. Whatever s**t we felt now because of our past mistakes, we have to let it go.

Inhale Clarity essential oil daily to help clear our minds so we can let go of the past easily.

Yes life goes on...but make the journey beautiful.

24/03/2023

No matter how long you are in this business, we will always hold your hands.
Together, we can go far. Together, we can reach the sky. Together, we can fly.

Doing business is hard work. We have to have a very strong determination. Our income may not be the same every month. We have to get out of our comfort zone 90% of the time. Maybe even 100%.

But business is sunnah. Maybe that is why it is not easy. Syaitan will always try to stop us from following sunnah, right?

May Allah bless our business and let us help more ppl, aamin!

If you are looking for the best business team, come dm me.

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We believed that embarking in a healthy lifestyle should be educational and most importantly - fun! 🥰

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Our goals are to guide others to improve their general physical health, immune system, nutritional health, mental health and emotional health.

Our available programs are :
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- Mama and Baby Care Program
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- Personalised Program to suit your needs.

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23/03/2023

When this copycat blender came out in Malaysia, I was a bit skeptical. How can it be so cheap but was claimed to be as good as Thermomix?

People started to rush to sell it. To make money. Convinced that it will be easier to sell because it is cheaper than the real thing. People actually left their jobs to be an affiliate to this company. All of them got cheated.

Before you sell a product, look at the company. How long has the company started? How many years has it been going on?

Look at the product itself. How good can a copy be anyway?

For example, Tupperware products has been selling for decades and still going strong despite thousands of copies everywhere. Why? Strong company with original products. Is Tupperware expensive as compared to the copies? Yes it is. So will it be worth it to be a Tupperware agent? Yes of course!

How about Young Living products? Are they expensive? Are they the original? Is the company strong? Are the products good? Are there real people out there who are getting benefits from the products? Are there real people out there who are earning as brand partners?

Young Living has been around for about 30 years. They have branches all over the world. They grow their own products! Everything is original.

I have been a brand partner for almost 11 years now. I have seen the benefits. I got my paycheck on time. I met good people. I have time flexibility. I was given travel opportunities.

Has it been easy? Nope!!!! There is no such thing as easy money. There is no such thing as shortcut to success.

So, make smart choices. Join me and my team today.

Our team is ready to work with you for all your healthy lifestyle needs. We have special programs specially made for self improvement.

We believed that embarking in a healthy lifestyle should be educational and most importantly - fun! 🥰

We will be able to coach you on your daily nutritional needs, together with regular supplement intake.

Our goals are to guide others to improve their general physical health, immune system, nutritional health, mental health and emotional health.

Our available programs are :
- Special Needs Coaching
- Mama and Baby Care Program
- Fun Active Lifestyle Program
- Weightloss Program
- Emotional Release Program
- Healthy Home, Beautiful Home Program
- Health Management Program
- Earn Money So Easy Program
- Empowerment and Manifestation Program
- We are Beautiful Program
- Personalised Program to suit your needs.

DM me for more info.

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