3Under3 MomLife

✨ Hey mamas! Guess who’s back on your timeline? ✨

Listen… having three under three should honestly come with hazard pay, a personal chef, and a lifetime supply of iced coffee 😂.

I took a little break because life was LIFE-ing! diapers, daycare runs, working full-time, trying to remember what sleep feels like, and squeezing in moments to feel like myself again. But God has been good, my babies are healthy, and Mama is back with more peace, more purpose, and MORE CONTENT. 🙌🏾💖

So here’s what you can expect from this page moving forward:
🌟 Daily mom hacks
🌟 Real talk about motherhood & mental health
🌟 Budget meals & quick dinners
🌟 Toddler development tips (teacher + SPED mama approved)
🌟 Weight-loss & wellness updates
🌟 And the everyday chaos that makes us laugh so we don’t cry 😅

If you’re a mama juggling ALL the things, you’re in the right place.

Let’s build this little corner of the internet back up.

Drop a “💛” if you’re still rocking with me and ready for more!

— Renee 🍼✨

BIG BOY ALERT!!

Y’all!! I have to take a moment to brag on my oldest baby—KINGSLEY!! Today, he did something AMAZING. Not only did he p*e and p**p in the potty for the very first time, but guess what?
HE ASKED TO GO HIMSELF!

I didn’t have to put him on the potty, convince him, or bribe him—my big boy knew what time it was and handled his business like a champ!

This is not a drill, y’all—we are officially entering the potty-trained era and I’m somewhere between emotional and throwing a party in my living room! He even did a little happy dance afterward that had us all cracking up.

Kingsley, Mommy is SO proud of you!! Keep shining, keep growing, and keep dancing every time you conquer a new milestone.

If you know me you know I'm someone who will change my scenery to fit my needs. I've always wanted to live abroad and actually applied to teach abroad in a few countries but didnt follow through when opportunities and life changed for me here.

At the time I was🌍✈️ Thinking About Moving to… JAPAN?! 🇯🇵👀

I know it sounds big but that thought has been back in my head and has me deep in thought 🤔…

What if me and my three little travel buddies packed up and moved to JAPAN?! 🏯

✨ Hear me out:

✅ One of the safest countries in the WORLD! Japan ranks #9 on the Global Peace Index and has an incredibly low crime rate. Violent crime is almost unheard of, and even petty crime is rare! 🚔🙌🏾

✅ Respect and community matter. People are polite, kids are taught discipline from an early age, and elders are honored. Can you imagine my little crew growing up in a place where kindness is the norm? 🥹👏🏾

✅ Black families are thriving! Japan has a growing community of Black expats, and locals are generally welcoming and curious in a good way. No side-eyes for just existing, just appreciation! 🖤✨

✅ Economic stability + affordable cost of living. Unlike the constant check-to-check struggle in the U.S., Japan offers a high quality of life at a lower cost. Healthcare? Universal and AFFORDABLE. Schooling? Top-tier. Groceries? Fresh and reasonably priced. 🚼💰

✅ The lifestyle?! Chef’s kiss. The FOOD (hello, sushi and ramen 🍣🍜), the scenery (cherry blossoms for DAYS 🌸), and the overall peace of mind? Sign me UP.

So now I’m wondering… if you could move anywhere in the world for a better life, where would you go? 🌍✈️

Drop your dream destination below! ⬇️⬇️⬇️

Saturday Mornings in a House with 3 Under 3 🚨💣

It’s 6:00 AM. One kid is screaming for cereal, another is running through the house half-dressed, and the baby? Oh, the baby is on a secret mission to chew on anything.

Meanwhile, I’m standing in the living room like a battle-worn soldier—water in one hand, a sippy cup in the other, dodging toys like it’s a war zone.

May the odds be ever in our favor, fellow moms. Stay strong. Stay caffeinated. And if all else fails… hide in the bathroom for five minutes of peace. 🫠😂

🚨 Mission: Morning Madness Activated 🚨

Every morning, I rise before the sun, like a highly trained (but very sleepy) operative on a mission—get three tiny humans up, dressed, and out the door… all before my coffee even kicks in. ☕😵

Picture this: One kid refuses to wake up like they’ve signed a contract with the mattress. Another is having an emotional breakdown over putting on socks. And the third? Oh, they’re just vibing in a diaper like life isn’t happening around them.

Yet somehow, SOMEHOW, I get them all dressed,bags packed, daycare drop-offs done, and arrive at work ON TIME, smiling like I didn’t just survive the Baby Olympics. 🏆

And you know what? I do it every single day—because I’m growing, glowing, and gracefully (kinda) stepping into my Best Mom Era. ✨

To all my fellow moms out here making magic happen before 8 AM—salute! 🫡😂 Drop a 🙌🏾 if your morning routine also feels like a full-blown action movie! 🎬💨

Wealth is more than numbers—it’s a mindset, a lifestyle, and a legacy in the making. ✨💼

I'm determined to get my land and build the lif my children and I deserve.

Manifesting Growth, Love, and Purpose in 2025

As we step into a new year, I’m setting my intentions for 2025 with a focus on health, family, faith, and building a future aligned with my dreams. Writing this out helps me stay accountable and intentional, ensuring every step I take is one of purpose and growth.

Health & Wellness

This year, I’m prioritizing my health as a foundation for all my other goals. To achieve this, I’ll focus on:

Workouts: Committing to at least four days a week of physical activity, including walks, strength training, and fun, family-friendly exercises like dancing and yime at the park with my kiddos.

Nutrition: Meal prepping each week to prioritize portion control and balanced meals rich in fresh, whole foods.

Family Health: Modeling a healthy lifestyle for my children by including them in activities and fostering a love for movement and nutritious eating.

This isn’t about numbers on a scale—it’s about feeling strong, energized, and ready to be the best version of myself for my family.

Building a Future

Owning land has been a long-standing dream of mine, and I’m setting a clear timeline to make this happen by 2027. This year, my focus will be on:

Researching available land and visiting to explore options that align with my vision.

Creating a financial plan and starting a dedicated savings fund for this goal.

Networking with real estate professionals and community members in the area I choose to gain insights and opportunities.

This land will serve as a foundation for the life I envision—whether as a family retreat, an investment, or the beginnings of a larger dream for the future.

Family First

In 2025, I want to deepen my connection with my children by making more intentional time for them:

One-on-One Time: Planning weekly “Mommy and Me” days tailored to each child’s personality and interests.

Outdoor Adventures: Scheduling bi-weekly trips to parks, zoos, or nature trails to spark curiosity and create lasting memories.

Learning Together: Incorporating fun, educational activities like DIY crafts, science experiments, and early literacy games to nurture their growth.

Family Traditions: Starting new traditions like Sunday pancake breakfasts or Friday movie nights to strengthen our bond.

My children are my everything; and every move I've made since I've been blessed with them has been to set them up for success. I understand it's no longer about me they are the priority.

Deepening My Faith

Faith has always been the cornerstone of my life, and this year I’m committing to growing spiritually alongside my family:

Devotionals: Establishing a nightly routine of reading Bible stories and praying together.

Church Community: Attending church regularly and exploring ways to serve others as a family.

Faith-Based Goals: Creating a family vision board inspired by God’s promises and our dreams, keeping us grounded and focused on His plan.

Living in Alignment with My Beliefs

One of my deepest desires is to live a life fully aligned with my faith and values. Becoming a wife is part of that vision—not just for the sake of a title, but to honor the covenant of marriage as God designed it. I want my family to reflect unity, love, and commitment under God’s blessing.

This year, I’ll focus on preparing myself for that role by:

Embodying the qualities of a wife—being patient, nurturing, and intentional in my actions.

Ensuring my choices reflect my faith and the future I want to build and standing by those choices even when they are tough ones to make.

Trusting in God’s timing and plan, knowing He will guide me toward what’s best for me and my family.

Additional Goals for 2025

Content Creation: Grow my TikTok and Facebook following to 10,000+ and consistently post helpful and inspiring content for moms with a group of kids lol or kids with special needs.

Career Development: Take steps toward starting my journey while continuing to excel in my current role as it will all play out for what is best for my kiddos.

Financial Stability: Build a stronger savings plan, not just for land but for my children’s future education and opportunities.

Time for Myself: Set aside at least 30 minutes daily for personal growth—whether that’s reading, journaling, or simply resting.

2025 is my year of transformation, alignment, and purpose. I’m committed to showing up for myself, my family, and my faith in meaningful ways. Sharing this is my way of holding myself accountable and inviting encouragement from those who believe in me.

Let’s make this a year to remember—a year of blessings, hard work, and growth in every area of life.