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6 months ago, my neighbor asked us if we wouldn't mind sharing our Wi-Fi password. We decided to give it to him because it wouldn't cost us anything extra, and because we got along with him. Yesterday, as I was getting out of the car, the neighbor was at his door, getting ready to come outside. I stopped to talk a bit as he held the door open. He happily told me he now had Netflix. At that, jokingly I said: ′′I work hard, I barely have time to watch TV, but, if you could lend us your password to watch some shows, we'd appreciate it ". A voice was heard in the distance, inside the house. It was his wife, ′′We can't give the password to them, because I'm the one who pays the bill and I can't share it." The man apologized and I said it was no problem. We kept talking about other things, and as I left, he stayed working outside. When I happened to look outside a little while later, I noticed the man's wife come outside. She seemed very nervous and upset. They both went into the house. After a few minutes, he and his wife came to my door to tell me the Wi-Fi password wasn't working anymore. I looked at them and said, ′′ I changed my password, because it's me paying the bill and I can't share it ". The wife turned red and tried to say something, but I said, ′′Ma'am, I have my network and you have your Netflix, everything is fine and everyone is happy". They turned around and left. They never spoke to me again.
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This story isn't mine, but here's the lesson I learned from it:
- Friendship must be mutual.
- Love must be mutual.
- Affection must be mutual.
-Feelings must be mutual.

In the rest of 2026, I intend to return silence with silence, absences with absences, affection with affection, friendship with friendship and loyalty with loyalty. No more one-sided feelings.

I'm definitely matching energy from this day forward for the rest of my life!!!

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Super proud of myself. 30 minutes on the walking pad, 13 minutes on the vibration plate and 20 minutes of reading. Starting off strong 💪

“You can’t build a reputation on what you’re going to do”. Henry Ford

Today marks 55 days until I compete this rotation around the sun aka my birthday. I’ve been thinking a lot about life, who I am, who I’m becoming, what I appreciate and what I want to improve. So I have decided to challenge myself in two ways. One is posting daily what I’m doing but the other piece is giving myself one hour daily. I want to document what happens if I make time for myself to have a full 60 minutes per day. The goal is to incorporate healthy habits and rediscover things I love. It’s not about becoming who I was but rather giving space to who I’m growing into. Time to water my own grass. ✌️

3 Kids in 5 years and 55 pounds of weight gain that only seems to decrease when I’m pregnant. 🤷‍♀️ I’ve been chasing a journey back to self for some time but I’m realizing now that I have to embrace the season I’m in. I cannot chase what was because it’s gone. And that’s okay. I have so much appreciation for who that girl was but if I don’t give the woman in front of me a big hug i’m going to miss who I am in this season. I will lose the weight but in the meantime in between time I’m going to love me a lot more and hug my babies tight.

What advice would you have given you of 10 years ago?

Mine would be spend the money, travel even more, embrace abundance because God has and will always provide for his children. 🩷

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I will be teaching a free virtual class for New Mom’s Village Support. This class is designed with postpartum moms in mind but open to all women. Very beginner friendly. Sign up to get the link.

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