Ashley Cromarty

Hey Beautiful Souls! 😍✨ Time to get real. Should anyone have the power to dull your sparkle? Absolutely not.

Imagine this: You're walking down the street, feeling like the main character you are, and then, someone tries to dim your shine with their opinions. Nope, not today. Let’s break it down:

🕳️ Avoid the "Comparison Trap." Social media isn’t reality. Don't compare your life to someone's highlight reel. Remember, everyone has their battles. Whisper to yourself, "Not today, Satan."

🚫 Stop the "Pleasing Pandemic." Pleasing everyone? Impossible. Live for you. Someone’s opinion of you? Doesn’t pay the bills. 💅🚀

🎭 Avoid "Power Plays." Don't let anyone puppeteer your emotions. You're the CEO of your feelings. Manage them wisely.

In summary, your worth isn’t based on others' opinions. You’re a fabulous individual, making your choices. Wear your invisible crown, and never let anyone dim your brilliant light. 💖✨👑 Direct your life’s movie to be Oscar-worthy!

Shine bright, lovelies! Sending love, laughter, and positive vibes. Peace out! 😘🌈💫

Hey, lovelies! 🌈✨ Ever find yourself spinning in circles, chasing approval like it’s the last slice of pizza at a party? 😅 We’ve all been there, right? Well, buckle up because we’re diving deep into the whirlpool of our psyche - specifically, how our instinctive response to trauma shapes our adult lives. Yes, it sounds heavy, but stick with me; I promise to sprinkle in some of my signature humor to keep things light! 🎈

Let’s talk about the mirror maze of our relationships – ever noticed how they sometimes reflect the not-so-great parts of our upbringing? It’s like we’re programmed to replay the hits (and I use that term loosely) of our past in our grown-up connections. And why do we stay in these patterns, you ask? Because change feels like trying to herd cats – impossible and mildly terrifying. 😰 We keep hoping for a different outcome, repeating old behaviors with a stubbornness that would make a mule proud.

Now, let’s chat excuses. Oh, the mental gymnastics we perform to justify the injustices dealt by our dear old folks! 🤸‍♀️ It’s as if there’s a part of us that refuses to see the painful truth – that sometimes, our parent/parents can’t offer us the love we so deeply deserve. It’s a tough pill to swallow, tougher than explaining why you still listen to 90s boy bands. But acknowledge it we must, because living in denial is like trying to water ski without a boat.

Enter the grand phenomenon of Repetition Compulsion. Sounds fancy, doesn’t it? Like something straight out of Freud’s discarded notebook pages. This is where we keep banging our heads against the wall, trying to win over the approval of people who are about as emotionally available as a teaspoon. Spoiler alert: it’s about as effective as trying to solve algebra while drunk. That is, not very. Instead of moving us forward, it often leaves us feeling more stuck, more damaged, and wondering why we can't just get it right.

So, what's the takeaway here, folks? It’s time to break the cycle. 🔄 Let’s stop chasing ghosts and start nurturing the one relationship that matters most – the one with ourselves. It’s about acknowledging our pain, understanding that seeking approval from those who can’t give it only leads to more heartache, and finally, bravely stepping away from the emotional merry-go-round.

Remember, healing is not linear, and it certainly isn’t easy. It’s like trying to fold a fitted sheet neatly – frustrating but ultimately rewarding when you get it right. So, let’s support each other, laugh through the tears, and remember: you are worthy of love and happiness, no matter what your past echoes. Here’s to breaking free and finding peace. Cheers, beautiful souls! 🥂❤️

Ah, Siblings Day – that one marvellous day of the year where my status as the second oldest of a whopping EIGHT kids really shines through. Let me tell you, it’s an experience that's as chaotic as it is heartwarming. So, gather round, friends and social media fam, as I take you on a wild ride through the ups, downs, and hilarious in-betweens of big sibling life. 🎢😂

Firstly, let’s talk about the built-in friendship system. Sure, TV makes having a ton of siblings seem like it’s all fun and games until someone drinks from your personalized mug. 🙄 But jokes aside, growing up with seven built-in comrades has been nothing short of an adventure.

Imagine having a mix between a live sitcom audience and a mini fan club for even your smallest achievements. Whether it’s finishing a puzzle solo or somehow managing to get the WiFi back on, every victory is celebrated. 🥳 It’s like having your very own cheer squad – except, they also steal your clothes and hog the bathroom.

Next up, becoming the master negotiator. If you think corporate boardrooms are tough, try navigating who gets the last slice of pizza in a household of eight siblings on a Friday night. 😏

You learn the art of compromise, persuasion, and sometimes, outright bartering (I'll trade you two chores for your turn on the Xbox). Negotiation skills? Check! Adulthood, here I come, ready to take on all sorts of conflicts with the finesse of a seasoned diplomat – or, at the very least, someone who can deal with the chaos of group projects.

But amidst the negotiations and shared laughter, there's this unique brand of wisdom that you only get from being part of such a big family. You understand the value of patience, of listening more than you speak (because, let’s face it, getting a word in can be a challenge), and most importantly, the depth of unconditional love. You see, no matter how many times we argue over trivial things like who used up all the hot water again, we've got each other's backs, unconditionally and always. ❤️

So, here's to Siblings Day – a shoutout to my fellow second, third, or even eighth siblings out there!

May your days be filled with half-eaten sandwiches left in the fridge, mystery shampoo disappearances, and a lifetime supply of inside jokes. 🤣

Let's raise our virtual glasses to the chaos, the noise, and the love that fills our homes and our hearts. To my seven irreplaceable partners in crime: Here's to us, to our shared memories, and to the many more yet to come. 🥂

🌟🌚 Hey Solar Warriors! 🌞🌟

Tomorrow is THE day we've all been waiting for – a solar eclipse! But not just any solar eclipse. This one's a biggie, and here's why you should cancel ALL your plans (yes, even that Zoom call with your cat) to witness this cosmic ballet. Ready to dive into the dark? 😜 Let’s go!

First off, let’s talk rarity. 🦄 Solar eclipses don’t come around every day like your morning coffee fix or those annoying notifications. They’re more like that one friend who travels a lot and only shows up unannounced once in a blue moon. Except in this case, it’s a black sun! A total solar eclipse, where the Moon completely covers the Sun, leaving us in awe-inspiring darkness during the day, is a rare event in any given location. So, if you miss this, you might just have to wait a decade or travel halfway around the globe for your next shot! ✈️🌍

Next up in our cosmic journey is the SCIENCE, folks! 🤓🔬 Eclipses aren't just cool to look at; they're a goldmine for scientists. Way back when, they helped prove Einstein’s theory of relativity – pretty hefty stuff coming from a blob of shade, right? For us mere mortals, it's a chance to see the Sun’s atmosphere, the corona, which is normally invisible! It’s also a fantastic opportunity to observe and learn, firsthand, about how celestial events affect Earth’s natural rhythms. Bugs and birds think it’s night and start their evening songs, temperatures drop – it’s like Mother Nature’s confusion button has been pressed! 🐦🌡

And let’s not forget the Human Connection. There’s something truly magical about hundreds, thousands, or even millions of people stopping their daily hustle and bustle to look up and share a moment that transcends time and space. It's a global event that connects us through awe, wonder, and those shared 'OMG did you SEE that?' texts. It’s a reminder that we’re all under the same sky, sharing this tiny blue marble as it dances with celestial bodies. 🌍💫

As we wrap up our eclipse extravaganza, remember, enjoying a solar eclipse is like attending the universe’s most exclusive party – and you’re INVITED! Tomorrow, step outside (safety glasses on, folks – no negotiating!), look up, and let yourself be awestruck. Document it, share it, live it. Because, trust me, nothing brings people together like the collective agreement that, for a moment, the universe just blew our minds. 🚀💥

So grab your eclipse glasses, ready your cameras, and let’s get dark! Remember, folks, witnessing a solar eclipse is like grabbing a front-row seat to the cosmos' most jaw-dropping show. Don't miss out! See you under the shadow! 🌑✨

Hey there, Magical Humans! 🌟✨

Let's dive headfirst into a world where good vibes aren’t just a trend, but a way of life! Imagine treating your brain like a garden (yes, you heard right, a garden!), where you only plant the seeds of good memories, learning experiences, fantastic desires, and ALL the happy emotions. Sounds pretty rad, doesn’t it? 🌈🌻

So here’s the scoop: when we allow these positive gold nuggets to dominate our consciousness, something extraordinary happens. Our subconscious gets a major upgrade – think of it as going from a flip phone to the latest smartphone! Each joyful memory or lesson learned is like an app update making you more fearless and ready to conquer the world. 🚀💪

# # # Unlocking Fearlessness Through Joy 🗝️❤️

Imagine embracing every challenge with a “Bring it on!” attitude. That’s exactly what harnessing the power of positivity does. Grappling with life’s hurdles becomes exciting rather than daunting. Remember that time you aced something you were initially nervous about? Yep, that’s the kind of energy we're talking about! It’s about banking those wins and letting them propel you forward.

# # # The Ripple Effect of Happiness 🌊😊

Ever noticed how one small act of kindness can brighten your whole day? That’s the ripple effect in action, folks! When we focus on the positives, we don’t just uplift ourselves; we become beacons of light for others too. Your happiness can inspire someone else to chase their dreams, and suddenly, you’re not just living in a better mindset, you’re contributing to a happier world. 🌍💖

# # # Empowering Change Through Positivity 🌟🔄

This isn’t about ignoring problems or pretending everything is sunshine and rainbows. It’s about choosing to focus on what empowers us. Facing a challenge? Shift the narrative in your mind from “I can’t” to “How can I?” It’s amazing how a change in perspective can transform obstacles into opportunities. 💫🛣️

# # # Wrapping It Up with a Big Bow of Happiness 🎁😄

Alright, lovely people, here’s the bottom line: cultivating a garden of positivity in our minds fosters a fearless, can-do spirit that makes life an exciting adventure. By celebrating our good memories, embracing learning experiences, and spreading joy, we don't just grow internally; we light up the path for others too.

So, what do you say? Are you ready to sprinkle a little more happiness in your life and watch as you – and the world around you – transforms? Let’s make this journey of positivity not just a ride but an epic adventure!

Until next time, keep shining bright and remember, you’ve got this! 🚀🌟

Flashback to cuddling up with a Janet Evanovich novel that threw this gem at me: 'Some people dream of success, while other people get up every morning and make it happen.' 💪✨ How does this powerhouse quote kickstart your ambition? Drop your success stories or morning routines below - let's inspire each other to rise and shine!

As for me a am forever grateful to have a hubby who is making it happen and I’m more then thrilled to support him on this amazing adventure. Though I have lots of work of my own to get to where I want to be. I’m grateful to have the support and love on my path to getting there. ☕🌅

Let your power shine through: In the flames of despair, like a phoenix born, new hope rises from the ashes and dust.

Within each scar, a strength resides, a will to rise and never hide. So fear not the shackles that bind, for they shall melt away like winter's grind. Embrace the fire that burns so bright, and let it purify your sight.

Just like wings unfolding from a cage, it's time to soar high and leave the pain behind. The past may have left its mark, but don't let it define your heart.

Rise up, dear one, and claim your birthright! Let courage be your guiding light. Break free from the chains that bound you tight, and dance among the stars tonight. �

For within your own soul lies the power to heal and reach the sky. So spread your wings and take flight, knowing that you are destined for delight.

Are you ready to embrace the fire within and rise above your past

Ready to conquer your fears like a boss Brace yourself because we're about to dive into the deep end of personal growth, my fearless friends! � Let's talk about overcoming fears, especially those pesky ones rooted in our past traumas. � We all have them, right They're like those clingy exes who won't let go! But fear not, my fellow warriors, we're here to shatter those limiting beliefs and embrace the unstoppable forces we truly are! Picture this: you're standing at the edge of a metaphorical cliff (or maybe a literal one, if that's your thing), ready to take the leap. The wind is howling, your heart is pounding, and your palms are sweaty. ��� But guess what You're not alone! We're all in this together, cheering for each other like a supportive virtual squad. Now, let's address the elephant in the room: your past trauma. It might feel like a dark cloud looming over your sunny skies, but here's the secret sauce�acknowledging it is the first step to overcoming it! Remember, every setback is just a set-up for an epic comeback! But hey, let's not get too serious here. Life is all about balance, right So, while we're on this rollercoaster ride of personal growth, don't forget to celebrate the little victories along the way! Whether it's facing your fear of heights or finally mustering the courage to speak up, every step counts. You're one step closer to becoming the unstoppable force you were born to be! So, dear friends, what's your biggest fear due to past trauma that you're ready to conquer Spill the beans in the comments below and let's unleash the power of our community! Together, we'll rise above the ashes, spread our wings, and soar towards the limitless possibilities awaiting us!