Nicki Baber

Nicki Baber

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I’m building a van, badly, because adulthood didn’t come with an instruction manual. This is the chaotic, unfiltered journey of making freedom up as I go.

Hey, I’m Nicki Baber 👻 your spooky best friend with 7M+ followers. I hunt ghosts, tell true paranormal stories, and travel to the most haunted places in the world. If you love creepy legends, haunted history, and a little “hot & haunted” energy, you’re in the right place.
💀 Founder of Banshee Society
🎙 Host of Make You Scream Podcast
📍 TikTok • YouTube • Haunted adventures

Follow if you’re ready to get scared!

06/02/2026

Today we’re talking about the Bermuda Triangle and why it may be what it is 🤔 💭

06/02/2026

It’s crazy because little girls were raised on fairytales about love.

Meanwhile millions of boys got raised online hearing:
“women expire after 30”
“never show emotion”
“women only care about money and status”
“women aren’t worth commitment.”

And people act like that hasn’t fundamentally shaped an entire generation.

The internet figured out that male loneliness is profitable. So instead of teaching men emotional intelligence, community, discipline, purpose, or vulnerability… a lot of these podcasts just teach men to blame women.

But most male problems were not created by women.

Who taught men vulnerability was weakness?
Who created “man up” culture?
Who built societies where men are valued mostly for status, money, and productivity?

Men did.

And instead of confronting that reality, a lot of influencers redirect the frustration toward women because outrage gets clicks and resentment keeps people watching.

Meanwhile women adapted to the modern world. Women went to therapy, built support systems, became financially independent, pursued education, built careers, and learned emotional intelligence at a much faster rate.

A lot of men are not keeping up.

Not because men are incapable of evolving, but because an entire industry is making money convincing them they don’t need to.

So now dating feels less like connection and more like two groups of people being psychologically conditioned to distrust each other.

And honestly I think that’s one of the saddest things happening in modern society.

06/02/2026
06/01/2026

The Bermuda Triangle has swallowed ships, planes, and hundreds of people without a trace. Myth… or something we still can’t explain? 🌊 Part 1

Photos from Nicki Baber's post 06/01/2026

May 2026 recap:

• family time
• haunted hotel adventures
• emotionally attached to the Renaissance Faire now
• probably spent too much money on random trinkets
• somehow survived another month

10/10 honestly. (Until getting this mystery virus the last week of May! Anyone else have this?)

05/31/2026

The problem with relationships…

05/31/2026

Happy Pride Month 🏳️‍🌈❤️🦄 love always wins!!

05/31/2026

They might be on to something here… maybe I need a wife 👀

05/20/2026

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