Katana.yo

Ok I am almost 30 so I am officially allowed to share my garden pics 😁

The most important task of every mom
is her own inner resources.

When she feels: “I’m tired. There’s someone who can stay with the baby, and I need to go rest, sleep.”
And if guilt shows up, to remind herself: “I’m doing this for my children — they need a happy mom, not an angry one.”

You can endlessly wait for your husband to notice that you’re tired and offer help
(most likely he won’t — I waited for 3 years and he didn’t).

You can fall into the victim role:
“I do everything for them. When they grow up, then I’ll start living / get a massage / start a business…
But for now, we need to go to the park — kids need fresh air.”

You can live in constant anxiety:
“What if the nanny / dad / grandma doesn’t watch properly and something happens, and I’m not there?”

And in the end, you get a woman
who is in a long-term postpartum depression,
constantly irritated, sometimes aggressive, rarely smiling, and doesn’t even look in the mirror anymore…

She manages to play all the developmental games,
work on speech, gross and fine motor skills,
go to the park, the pool, football, cook meals…

But she doesn’t have time to exhale.
She is constantly exhausted
and feels like she’s in a prison —
a prison she built herself.

Do you know who I just described?
Myself 😶

Can you relate? What’s the hardest for you to let of control, ask for help or letting yourself rest?

Today our sweet baby Lilia is 9 months old 🌸

The girl who brings us joy and happiness.
The girl that smiles every morning and every time she sees her daddy.
The girl who already knows what she wants and announces it very loud 😁
The girl who is so beautiful inside and out.

Thanks for joining our family, gorgeous Lilia. We love you very much ❤️

For mothers like myself who you are tired, focused on taking care about everyone around that’s a TIME to remember “when you are taking care of yourself- you are taking care about your whole family”.

I invite you to the space where is no judgement, no advices, no right or wrong. The space where you can be heard, nourished.
You don’t have to be perfect, strong, flexible, being in good shape. Wearing your pajama and being present is enough.

Session can be done in a comfort of your home and even with baby next to you.

Send me “doula day” to schedule your session 🫂 🧘🏻‍♀️🙏🏻

Happy International Women’s Day to every woman in this world 🤍

From one woman to another —
thank you for your softness, your courage, your love and your wisdom.

A woman carries a unique power within her:
the power to create, to nurture, to feel deeply, and to bring life into this world.

Our bodies hold ancient wisdom.
Our hearts hold endless love.

May every woman remember her truth,
her beauty,
her strength,
and the sacred energy she carries within.

You are powerful.
You are life.
You are divine.

Our yoga story with 🤍

Я четыре месяца как мама двоих. И мои выводы к этому часу.

Чтобы все успевать нужно планировать КАЖДЫЙ ЧАС КАЖДЫЙ ДЕНЬ.🤯

Попить чай тоже надо планировать.

Свою йога практику планировать еще сложнее.

Плюс на фоне всегда маленький ребенок, которого надо кормить грудью и укладывать спать .

Я еще никогда в жизни не была настолько многозадачна 😶‍🌫️

Усталость просто уже фон

Минута в тишине это роскош. Когда я просто еду одна в такси - это подарок судьбы.

Уход за собой, поход к доктору или зубному надо планировать тоже, иначе можно вообще развалиться, потому как это можно бесконечно откладывать. На года три в моем случае.

Написала этот пост месяц назад если что 😂 но все еще актуально

Мамы, вы там как?