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I am taking some time off social media.
The last 6 weeks have seen me navigating some inner confusion and discomfort. I need some time to myself to just do me right now and I am encourage you to do the same if you are feeling called to.

I have been mourning some big changes and loss in my life and am unclear on a few things so I need to create more space for connection of all things that ground me and create the quietness that is needed for clarity.

This will be my last week online for a month. I will be sharing many random things in my stories over the next week in no particular order but things that matter to me or that make me laugh. I hope some of them are helpful to you in anyway. Maybe inspiration, maybe insight, maybe a laugh and maybe a tear.

I am so very grateful for all of you that have taken the time to send me a message of amy kind. For those that make the effort to press like when they get something from one of my stories or posts. For those that have shared parts of themselves with me as I do you.

Thank you. Know that I am very grateful that you took the time, made the effort. It makes a difference.

I have some massive changes coming next year and it’s time to start aligning with them.

Jac - Time to go a little deeper. Time to expand.

Sometimes when I look back upon my life it is unrecognizable to the life I had imagined.
I wonder how I got to the ripe old age of 48 and ended up with 2 children with 2 different fathers, 2 marriages, 2 businesses, moved house, states, country a billion times, still to this day get high.

I wonder why. Why I’ve had s*x with so many people, stayed in abusive relationships when I should have walked at the beginning. Why I still at times feel a complete mess.
If I allow myself to I could look over my life and feel extremely sad and even ashamed for so much of the life I have lived. I choose not to do that nowadays mostly because I know
Why. I know why I allowed people to abuse me, I know why I never felt good enough or worthy enough of the love and life I at times had concluded would never happen.

The conditioning started when I was a young child. At an extremely young age I learnt not to trust people. At school age I started to learn on the daily that I was stupid, that I would never amount to anything because I could not for the life of me concentrate for longer than 2 mins especially not long enough to answer questions that I didn’t understand on a piece of paper that would apparently decide what kind of life I was destined for being text book “stupid” and all.

So here I am, 14 ish. 14 years old. Society had taught me not to trust people (men in particular). I was apparently stupid. I was not “societies” version of attractive especially as I had decided to dress like a boy mostly (I imagine due to the s*xual abuse). I was failing school brilliantly, was not really good at sport, had been kicked out of school and the new school I had been sent to was a private girls school for the “privileged” only.

By this age I was having full melt downs at home. I mean like loosing my complete s**t and wishing I no longer had to do this thing called life. My parents were desperate. I had seen more councilors, psychologists etc than you could poke a stick at. My parents unbeknown to me had thought I may have been s*xually abused as a younger child but they didn’t have enough proof to question the person they suspected so instead did nothing. To add to my current state of fight or flight, school bullying was rife and so we were all constantly on alert not knowing from one day to the next whether we were going to be cool, accepted, teased or flat out tormented.

My parents had all but given up. I had locks on the outside of my bedroom door, my windows were screwed shut from the outside also. Their last hope was that of the church so they invited the priest to the house to intervene. I don’t remember much but I remember loosing it, him sitting on my chest and slapping my face telling my parents I was possessed. This was the moment before I jumped up, grabbed the glass vase and pelted it his way.

Looking back on all of this, my life could have gone several directions. It is not at all shocking that there were to be decades of destruction to follow.

I am not even sure why I am writing this right now tbh but as I do I am filled with an inner passion to keep rising. To keep loving and accepting myself as I fu***ng am. To celebrate myself and how far I have come and keep going. To celebrate my unwillingness to live a life of someone else’s acceptability. My unwillingness to tolerate other peoples bs or to give a f**k what others think of me grows daily because no one has a fu***ng clue the roads I have trodden to be here right now. I feel a responsibility to share my story, my experience and my now understanding of what it took and still takes to keep accepting and loving on myself and my life.
In a world that continues to keep telling me I’m crazy and I don’t fit in and where I don’t even want to fit the societal standards and norm of what I should be, should look like (lying here - I would def like to own the body of a super model) or what I should sound like and so on. I feel like there’s just so much bs out there I’d rather be my own kind of bs.

Here is how I see it, if I am to choose to continue doing life at this stage in the game I am going to do it my way. The way I choose to live and with whom I want to do it with. It is not going to be a life of societal norm and principles that quite frankly I think are complete bs anyway.
I’m not asking for your approval nor your love and if you want mine we need to sit down and discuss the rules of engagement. What I am asking is that you love yourself at the deepest levels. That you never give up on yourself or your dreams knowing that they will change as you and life does. Life does that. It changes you. IDGAF what anybody says, it fu***ng does change you but you get to keep choosing in every given moment.

You will have very few moments between life happening where you sit and reflect. Where you get to realign your heart and your head. The older you get you will get less of these moments unless you create them. You will know less about who you are, what you really want and how you are going to get it unless you create the moments between. There are going to be times when you question all that you are and all that is. These moments will pass but so will your life.

To compare yourself or your life to anyone else is madness, stupidity and impossible really. The measures themselves are not remotely similar. To live with shame is pointless and yet we still play it out daily at times and on repeat. Pain is part of life but how we use it to shape and direct us is up-to us. Happiness and joy are ideal but it would be impractical not impossible , to expect to remain here always.

Life is going to ebb and flow. It will be hard and easy. You are not here forever. Are you going to create those moments needed to come back into your heart space, to align with your highest truth in this moment. To create the space and time for awareness of what that looks like, what it feels like. Who do you need to be in order to have that and to become that? What or whom do you need to let go of to align with that knowing? How do you need to support yourself to support that vision powerfully?

Life will always present to you choices and opportunities for change. Sometimes you will be all for it and sometimes you will need to stop and nurture. Sometimes you will need to be a damn magician and juggle doing both so as to not implode in one great big “what the f**k is happening” moment.

You’ve got this sis. This ain’t for the faint hearted and that’s ok because you aren’t. You may be tired, you may be broken down. You may have been in survival mode and numbing your unconscious trauma wounds.
None of us are perfect darling, even the ones doing a fu***ng great job of letting you think they’ve got it all sorted. The easiest way is to just work on you. Choose your tribe and your loved ones carefully. Be strong when you need to be but also be soft. Stay open but have boundaries.
Stay consistent but do not seek perfection. Stay loving but strong. There are people out there spitting their pain, anger, frustration and bs out into the world and love projecting it onto others to make them feel
momentarily powerful. You may not always dodge it so when it comes know your created self so well that it either slides or bounces off you quickly or that you use it to leverage a greater awareness of who you are and where you are or want to be operating from.

There is a right and a wrong but you don’t get to choose it for others.

In less than 20 days I am holding an event that will and already has changed the course of my life. Tbh I have no fu***ng idea why I am doing it and yet I do. So much of me doesn’t want to do it but I know if I don’t I will live with regret and I’ve reached the point in my life where fear is no longer what renders me frozen. Fear has become my greatest teacher and friend.

I want to invite you along to what very well could be the event that changes the course of your life or at the very least how you powerfully step into next year and create from a place of aligned and conscious choices and actions. I am not sure when I will be holding the next event but I am fairly certain it will not be for minimum 6+ months as I have some bloody big changes coming next year.

Can you trust yourself enough to follow that inner knowing. That whisper calling you forward ?
Can you take your fear and carry it with you whilst you still do the very things that scare the absolute s**t out of your very being? If I can do it, that little girl that was told she was stupid and would amount to nothing. That little girl who was abused at the hands of people she was told to trust and that she thought “loved” her. If she can take her fear with her and create the event then I know you can come and create yourself and life there also. It is a safe space to unpack and repack your new chosen self and life.

Make sure to bring all of you. You get this one day to not only let go but to let in. To allow yourself to dream again. To create yourself into being who you know you need to be to create this next chapter. To call forward the parts of your self and life you doubt the most.

Let’s fu***ng do this!

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Ends 6pm Thursday night!

I can’t remember the last time I had a sale for refresh but here it is. Don’t say I didn’t tell you.

If you are not on social media, also not my fault as you all know this is where I live my life for all to see. Business and all.

If you know you want to come to the Beauty Unleashed Event or you are thinking about it; tune in tonight at 7:30pm to talk all things Beauty Unleashed. This event will truly be life changing so if you are ready for this, come join me 😉.

This woman needs a serious hand up my people.

Sometimes life just feels so overwhelmingly out of our control and when you are a single mum and your health is minimizing your ability to work and provide for yourself and your child it’s some next level overwhelm and anxiety.

It will only take 700 people to donate $10 each to allow this woman to have her transplant that she so desperately requires to live as normal life as possible.

I beg of you to donate $20 and copy and paste this text and share.

Kylie will need 2 months away from home (Sydney) and her son once transplant goes ahead and she does not have many she can call on.

Make this be some serious love and good you put out into the world today. Your couple of dollars is a couple of dollars to you but it’s someone’s life and mummy for this lady and others.
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Here she is my darlings.

Your chance to clean up with yourself, your life and your loved ones. Your opportunity to honor all parts of your inner knowing and self.

Are you ready? Ready to trust not me but you?

Follow the link .

Follow your calling!

I love you. I see you.

I am you 🔥❤️🙌

https://jacquelinekama.com.au/

Wow what a powerful 24 hrs I have just experienced.
Didn’t even realize it was a full moon till late last night whilst going to bed.
Makes so much sense what’s been coming up, leaving and demanding awareness from me the last 6 months, 2 months, month, last few days and the final hidden crumbs that were hiding under the mat so to speak within the last 24 hrs. Far out.

BRINNNNNNNNNG IT!

HERE FOR THIS!

To all who are wanting details for Dewu in Bali. Here is the page you need to follow and contact him on.

I have decided to take the rest of the month off from social media and really do some serious upgrading in all aspects of my life. I will still be available for making appointments for skin needling through messages through the number / contact link attached to page. However I am also making changes in this area to align with my highest visions moving forward.

Thank you from the depths of my heart and soul for loving me and allowing me to be me even when I may at times trigger the depths of you.

We only have this life now and I have spent a huge part of mine overstaying places and people that were only serving my fears, trauma and limiting beliefs.

I will be back next month. Keep stepping in and up my people.

I love you and know I do this for us all. Always have. Sharing my life with you on this page is not a business to me. It would be a very stupid business strategy if it was 😜. I do it to show you we are all here for the same reason. We all get it “wrong”. None of us are “perfect”. We get to show up in all our “stuff” with no shame needed and know that we are mostly all one in the same except for a small minority of us.

This does not mean we have to tolerate or accept others vileness or playing seriously small but instead use it to reflect on who we are, how we are showing up and what we want for ourselves and others.

I love you all and am so deeply grateful for this life, my life and those in it.

❤️🙏

I had to copy from a friend! Beautiful and inspirational. Feels right to meditate on.

Me: Hey God.

God: Hello.....

Me: I'm falling apart. Can you put me back together?

God: I would rather not.

Me: Why?

God: Because you aren't a puzzle

Me: What about all of the pieces of my life that are falling down onto the ground?

God: Let them stay there for a while. They fell off for a reason. Take some time and decide if you need any of those pieces back

Me: You don't understand! I'm breaking down!

God: No - you don't understand. You are breaking through. What you are feeling are just growing pains. You are shedding the things and the people in your life that are holding you back. You aren't falling apart. You are falling into place. Relax. Take some deep breaths and allow those things you don't need anymore to fall off of you. Quit holding onto the pieces that don't fit you anymore. Let them fall off. Let them go.

Me: Once I start doing that, what will be left of me?

God: Only the very best pieces of you

Me: I'm scared of changing

God: I keep telling you - YOU AREN'T CHANGING!! YOU ARE BECOMING!

Me: Becoming who?

God: Becoming who I created you to be! A person of light and love and charity and hope and courage and joy and mercy and grace and compassion. I made you for more than the shallow pieces you have decided to adorn yourself with that you cling to with such greed and fear. Let those things fall off of you. I love you! Don't change! Become! Become! Become! Become who I made you to be. I'm going to keep telling you this until you remember it.

Me: There goes another piece...

God: Yep. Let it be.

Me: So...I'm not broken?

God: No - but you are breaking like the dawn. It's a new day. Become!!

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