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When I left my marriage, the first question people asked was: “Did he cheat?” I shook my head.
They were confused. “So why leave a good man like that?”

Yes… he was a good man.
He didn’t cheat. He didn’t beat me. He provided. He came home every night.

But I was slowly disappearing inside that marriage.

There were nights I talked and he didn’t hear me.
Times I cried beside him and he said, “You’re too emotional.”
Moments I needed comfort… and got silence instead.

And then there were nights I will never forget.

The night I had diarrhoea and stooling all through the night… I kept getting up, weak, exhausted… and he never noticed. He never asked. He never turned.

The night I had a severe shaking episode in my sleep… my body trembling beside him… and he slept through it like nothing was happening.

The nights I coughed endlessly, struggling for air, the sound filling the room… and still, no movement from his side of the bed. Not even a “are you okay?”

Or is it when I was stooling all through the night while I was pregnant and he went to work leaving me all by myself. Reason he gave was because I asked him to go. How do you combine a man who was constantly reminding you about his being late to work and managing the condition I found myself?

I lay there sometimes wondering…
“If something happens to me in this house, will he even know?”

I once told him, half joking but deeply afraid:
“My fear is that I will be dying one day… and you will never know.”

He laughed.
But I didn’t find it funny.
Because I wasn’t asking for perfection.
I was asking for presence.
For awareness.
For a partner who notices me.

That was when I understood something painful:
A man can be good… and still not be emotionally available.
And I didn’t leave because he was bad.
I left because I was alone… in a marriage that was supposed to feel like home.

If you were in her shoes, how long would you stay?
Is presence more important than provision in marriage?

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One reason why u keep thinking your husband is cheating is because u haven't gone to his job site to see how he struggle.At 7pm ur okada massa don sée better Passenger from mile 2 to bambui 4 k ,take risk for go hussle u deh for house di tie' mouth like fool,some di hot Water for peelam on arrival
this gender just over weak for reason eeessssshhhh .

Eat who u feed
feed who you eat
Dress who you undress
undress who you dress
in short drink from your well

if you don't want to learn this post is not for you just scroll pass.
men,giving your wife food money is not taking care of your wife,it is just a basic responsibility ,same way not favour .
came to think of this,of what used is fire wound,gas, foodstuffs to her,those things are for the general use of a whole house hold,some men provides and gets angry,some doesn't give any thing for women upkeep but keep emphasis on her the family doesn't lack food let's be honest here majority of women cook , struggle gets tired and at the end dont even eat like no body cares whether they have eaten but all their lives they make sure there is always something for the kids and children yet might not be appreciated at the end ,deep in me men should sit up and treat women the way there want their sisters to be treated .

Please normalize not owing MTN, it’s so unprofessional when a client sends you money and MTN cuts it. Delete that betting app, exit that pressure njangi and save yourself the embarrassment of always owing MTN.
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