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Easter is a festivity where we are reminded of Christ's death for our sins. We are educated during this festivity that the blood of Jesus has forgiven us of any sin we ever have committed. Today being Easter Saturday I want us to talk about forgiving oneself. Forgiveness is what brings God's mercies to man.
Forgiveness is a sign of love.When you forgive someone you show the person love. But when you forgive yourself you reconnect with your creator.

Many a time we hold on to some things we did in past and blame ourselves bitterly. We often find it difficult to forgive ourself because we assume that our actions or inactions in the past are the causes of our present predicament. However that isn't so. Whatever happened belongs to the past and its time to move on. You might have done something terrible in the past but that doesn't define who you are. As ugly and sinful as it might appear, you simply can't keep yourself in bo***ge. ITS TIME TO FORGIVE YOURSELF. Jesus Christ has made the propiciation; what is left for you to do is to allow yourself to reap the benefits of the atonement of your sin by forgiving yourself and others as well. Clear your mind and heart off offences and let Jesus take His place in life. Holding on an offense that was done to you is like cutting your nose to spite your face; it will only amount to nothingness but hurt. May the death and resurrection of our Lord Jesus Christ give you joy and the reason to forgive yourself and others.
Jesus is love. Let love reign.

Relationships and breakups go hand-in-hand. Its very painful but also inevitable. Personally I have experienced a broken heart before and trust me the pain is enormous. I questioned how I was going to survive without him because to me he was my world. I took months to get over him and as years passed by I thank God he left. So what happens when you experience a broken heart? Dress up, move on and forget about him or her. I guess you are saying like seriously.... oh yeah... like dull. Everyone we meet in life is either a blessing or a lesson. Your Ex may be a lesson, use that lesson and be a better person. Sometimes it is hard to forget and move on because of some investment of time and resource in the relationship. Instead of weeping and thinking about that loved one, channel all the hatred into being an entrepreneur. Let him or her look at your success in future and regret they left you. It hurts to let go but sometimes it hurts more to hold on

Life is very SIMPLE don't make it complex
Love God
Love your neighbor don't hate anyone
Be joyous always
Don't compare yourself to others neither be envious of them
Have hope that things will get better
Blessed weekend.... MzzEfya Aseda Aidoo

Live everyday like its your last day on earth.... Have a blessed day

These words totally describe me

The deeper you are, the harder it becomes for you to find someone who wants to have a relationship with you. You can go out on a lot of dates but at some point the relationship fails to progress any further and that is mainly because of the intensity of your depth. Not every man is strong enough to handle a deep woman. Here’s why:

1. A deep woman asks deep questions. A deep woman will probe further into your life and ask questions that you may not be prepared to answer. Even on the first date, she will dig deeper and ask personal and philosophical questions – she will never enjoy a shallow conversation.

2. A deep woman is honest. Too honest – often blunt. A deep woman takes her integrity seriously and one thing she believes in is honesty. If you ask her anything, she will tell you the truth and she expects the same from you.

3. A deep woman knows what she wants. Or who she wants. A deep woman knows right away if she likes you and doesn’t need to date around or explore her other options to be sure of her feelings. Her heart only beats for a special few people and she knows them right away.

4. A deep woman wants a deep relationship. She wants long conversations about your life, she wants to hear stories about your past, she wants to understand your pain and she wants to add value to your life. She wants a real relationship that goes beyond going out and having fun.

5. A deep woman is not afraid of intimacy. She is not afraid of getting closer or risking getting hurt in the process. She doesn’t think it will entrap her freedom or make her vulnerable. Her depth and intimacy go hand in hand and she will always cherish the beauty of intimacy in relationships.

6. A deep woman sees through you. She can see who you really are and what makes you vulnerable. She is not the one to hold back from pointing out what she sees in you or how well she can read you. Even though it makes you uncomfortable, she wants you to know that she understands you and that you can be yourself around her.

7. A deep woman craves consistency. She gets turned off by inconsistency or flaky behavior. She desires a strong connection and a solid bond and she knows that consistency is the foundation of that bond. A deep woman will not participate in the dating games.

8. A deep woman is intense. She may be slightly intimidating because she brings intensity to everything she does. Her emotions are intense and so are her thoughts. She will never be indifferent about things that matter to her – not everyone is strong enough to handle her intensity.

9. A deep woman only knows how to love deeply. If you can’t love her deeply, she will walk away. She doesn’t know how to casually date someone she’s really into or be friends with someone she has feelings for. A deep woman knows when someone can’t meet her halfway and she will slowly detach herself from anyone who is not willing to give her the deep love she is looking for.

10. A deep woman won’t wait for you. She will not wait for you to make up your mind or watch you be hesitant about her. She is strong and passionate and will not waste her emotions on someone who doesn’t appreciate their depth. Even though she is looking for a special kind of love, a deep woman is not afraid of being on her own.

Words by: Rania Naim
Artwork by: Ashley Chanet

You can have a new job, new spouse, new boss, new car, new house, etc., but if you put your old mind in the new stuff, you'll still have the old experience. A new life rather comes from a new mind and a new way of looking at your life. You cannot have a positive life with a negative mindset...Stay focused and be positive. Happy New Year

Perhaps your expectations for 2016 wasn't met but hey if there is life there is Hope 2017 has much to offer just have faith in God. See u next year.. ..love Aseda

Today I set my foot to the bank by the ATM to get some cash because I dearly needed the money.

As I started to transact, the atm showed me an inscription which said
; Please insert your card.

Likewise I did insert the card

And then another message came-please enter your pin code
Which I did
Another message came ...select the amount,
I did that too
After I had done all this...the ATM showed me a message in BOLD letters

YOUR TRANSACTION IS BEING PROCESSED, PLEASE
WAIT

allow me to say..likewise, you have done all these things, you have prayed, you have fasted, you have even asked others to pray with you and for you but it seems as if nothing is happening in your life.

Allow me to say to you, wait patiently don't give up, don't move because your request is being processed. WAIT!

Let me tell you ..What made me wait is because my card was already in the ATM machine, I had already entered my pin code.

If I give up now and walk away..Lord have Mercy...
The next person will get all that I had requested
Not because your messages aren't heard, not because your prayers are irrelevant, not because your fasting is meaningless..but because
YOUR TRANSACTION IS BEING PROCESSED

Wait and murmur not. Do not think you were born to suffer..
Your prayers are being processed
Wait upon the Lord🙏

I Know it's not easy but I encourage you ..WAIT!!

YOUR TRANSACTION IS BEING PROCESSED PLEASE WAIT

Good morning.
Have a Blessed new month and may the Lord Bless you Abundantly 🙏🙏🙏