Open Eye

Men wake up, it is easier for men to send to their girlfriends money after a call but can't send cash to their parents immediately after a call.

Remember your parents walked with torn clothes some without shoes etc.... For you to be who you are today.

I think a bottle of beer is around 350 now and you will find a guy comfortably drinking as much as possible with friends or girlfriends whom I think they take wine or black ice going for each 400 I think but sending only requested 1k to your mum it's impossible.
Lemmi advice men , a lady can leave you but your mum will never rethink and rethink again.

Balance both let your parents be responded first then the rest will follow.

Ladies if you see your man building a house in shags does not mean you will go and stay there.... This shows your man is focused and incase of anything like Corona time you have a place you can call your home. Leaving in town forever is not kuchanuka don't force your man to buy land in town only to impress your friends. leave your life. After all we end up in shags one day. make your ushagu the heaven you wanted.

I would encourage Men to marry ladies working in kibanda, hawkers, selling food by the road or ladies who are ready to do anything apart from Prostitution. This one you will never regret.

Why am I saying all this, even if you lose your job or in your absence your children will never suffer.

What are we suppose to do to have a good and United family.

Nowadays or this generation; relationships and marriages can't last and will never because our relationships and marriages are found or based on worldly things, full of conditions, driven by selfishness, arrogance, and pride, physical appearance etc ....
Have witnessed weddings hiccups, come we stay and also many relationships failing became your love was conditional .u saw your partner with a good, a nice car, beautiful house, the families he or she comic from, tribe, but you failed to outline important things

Being a member of praise and worship or youth chairman is not a qualification to a good husband or wife.

A good friend or partner is someone who will walk with you in all aspects of life, love you without any reason, having a fear of God leaving true to his or her words true to himself. with or without. This kind of person is not easily found. Someone need to pray and fast seek God intervention because when you successed in this areas we will have couples with the fear of God.

MAY GOD HELP US .

WHEN YOU SEE THIS SIGNS NO YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS GOING TO BREAK UP.

1.They avoid you.

2.they've stopped talking about a future with you.

3. They've stopped making an effort.....

4.They put them friends first...

5. You're no longer intimate with each other unless there is a dry spell....

6.they're being secretive...

7. They threaten to leave you...

8. They easily pick fights with you.

9. Sometimes Ignore your text ......or take time to respond to your call ....not like before.

Is it okay to read your spouse's text messages,

So, is it ever okay? The long and short of it, No it's generally not okay. It's a violation of your partner's privacy and a breach of trust - not to mention. it's often unproductive: you might find nothing and then feel like a jerk of snooping. You might find something small and innocent and blow it out of proportion.

Going through your partner's phone is toxic.

Looking through your partner's phone, " may infer that trust is not well-built between the two people in the relationship. Curiosity is one thing but actively going through someone's phone its an exercise of mistrust.

In any relationship, particularly new relationship. Privacy is important . Having access to each others phone or other devices forces transparency rather than allowing you two to open up naturally . This can backfire and leave you both feeling as though your boundaries have been disrespected.

Complete your woman.... make her what you would like her to be. the beauty you desire outside there bring it home...... Choose the best for your woman from the hair styles, dress 👗👗 and any romantic garment you feel she gonna be comfortable in it. fear not you can't fear or run from who you are.... Because when you Married you became one.

Make her the product you can buy without bargaining when back in the market.

4 -Ways MEN Can Escape Poverty.

1. Leave Naked Women Alone: Yes, those women who dress like they are in the process of un******ng but they have not finished. Leave them alone. Most of them are up to no good and will only cost you a whole fortune in one weekend. Instead, get yourself a real woman: There is strength in a real woman.. Not these tuma chics without brain . Get a woman who will not only support your vision but will also push you to achieve more. A woman who will inspire you to work hard and not a woman who just makes you hard. He who finds a real woman finds a good thing and obtains favour and power to create wealth.

2. Stop Taking Cheap Food : I have no problem with having a Your Tea or food over social interaction and networking. However, when you drink cheap Tea or drink in Cheap place , you hang out with cheap people who have cheap ideas and a cheap future. Big business opportunities are found in places where the drinks are expensive. Infact, in places where they sell cheap Tea, the only people you will find there are people who will be asking you for money. They even clap when you come knowing 'big buyer' has come... Lol

3. Stop being Lazy: "Man ooh Man, why art thou Lazy?" You are too lazy for your own good. You sleep the whole day and blame the govt for your poverty. "A Little Sleep, a Little Slumber, poverty shall overtake you like a political cadre in overalls". A lot of men are just lazy when it comes to making money. They have enough energy to give a woman five or***ms, but have no energy to start one organization, hmmm that's why it is so easy for men to manufacture children than it is to make even pegs for putting children's clothes on the line..

4. Know Productive Things: If you keep too much junk in your head, you get a junk life. I know a lot of men who are so sharp when you are talking about girls, about soccer and about street politics, Who is Rich who is not,Who has a good house 🏡 but you can't bring a topic about investment.

THE IMPORTANCE OF BEING FRIENDS BEFORE YOU GRADUATE INTO A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP.

Friendship is the first thing you need and very important when it comes to developing a relationship. Being friends it gives you an opportunity to get to know the person for who they are and gives you the opportunity to learn things about them that you would not have learned otherwise.

Many relationship are failing because someone did not allocate a lot of airtime in being friends first to understand the person behaviour, talks, how they treat people, whether they take alcohol, or anything etc...

When you Jump into a relationship without being friends first,all types of issues and challenges may occur. You begin to accept more from the person and sometimes set a realistic expectations.
By putting friendship before a relationship, you can easily decide whether they are the perfect one to date or not as there wil be no pretence and more open space to talk things that matters.

Friendship then lover

We put so much pressure on someone because of your own expectations and desire? When you develop a genuine friendship, there are no expectations. You both can be your true selves. You can learn everything you want to know about each other. You don't have to worry about pretending to be someone you're not.

Finally, Developing a bond of friendship before a relationship may be better than just letting the attraction get the better of you and discovering later that you can't even be good friends.

If there is anyone without a sin let him be first to cast the stone, this was a question asked by Jesus directed to people who wanted to stone the pr******te.

A times we like judging people without walking a step with them to understand the reason they found themselves into the situation.

Today I decided to approach someone my purpose and reason is I wanted to know the reason she does the job.

This is how I approached her and ofcoz at first she thought I wanted a session. This how the question was. how is the day, she replied not bad, what about yours? I answered cool she smiled,

They I posed a question, I understand very well is not your wish to do what you do for a leaving, and if I was in a position will be willing to open a business for you.....from the look I could tell she was impressed by the approach.

Are you willing to tell me the reason why you found yourself in this situation? I posed another question. When I could She was ready to share I looked for a place we could have a cup of coffee thank God there was a place nearby.

First she said she has never found anyone caring not even claimed 'saved' people behave like that everyone was like wachana na hawa ni Malaya( don't mind about this people because they are pr******tes).

This lady was an Orphan 13 years then. Every person in the family was not willing to support her. The reason why she could not hold anymore was in the family one of them wanted to r**e her.

She went out luckily she got a job as a house girl but unfortunately the husband to the family where she was working wanted to sleep with her.

When the wife found out without investigating she was thrown out around 10 pm. She went out at 10pm no where to sleep, fortunately, there was this lady she met around that time took her home, housed her for two days.... but little did she know the lady was a s*x work. She brought a man slept with her where after the session was given 3000.

To cut the story short,
That's how she started the job up to date because the only person she found as a mentor was a s*x work. If were' you at 13 years old and the only person who cared for you was a s*x work ungefanya???