Ludipseas George The life coach.

If I may ask you, what are you doing right now?
What are you thinking about right now?
Does it help you grow in any way or you are just passing time?
If it's helping you better yourself then keep doing it but if you are passing time then just pass it.
Choices make us. It's that simple.

THE BEST BOSS.
Take 1:
You will never get tired working for him or her.
You will never be fired but retire at your own will.
He will never be unfair or take advantage of you.
Take 2:
You can never get tired working for yourself.
You can never fire yourself unless you chose to resign or retire.
Can you be unfair to yourself or take advantage of yourself?
EMPLOY YOURSELF, BE YOUR OWN BOSS AND BE THE BEST BOSS TO YOURSELF.
God founded your Company, don't apply to be a janitor in your own Company when you can Lead.
Don't be afraid, trust in the Lord and yourself.
There is POWER in you to PROPEL anything you want to where you want it to be.
. to yourself.
Nobody will ever be that BOSS to you unless you chose to that BOSS to yourself.

What of you?
If Moses the stammerer was given a leadership role,
If Sarah got a child at her age?
What of you?
If Mary the Mother of Jesus got pregnant without s*x, insemination but through the holy spirit?
If Lazarus was resurrected from the dead?
What of you?
If Jesus saw the short, wealthy tax collector zacchaeus who people deemed corrupt and greedy but Jesus dinned with him and forgave him?
If David become a King, what of you?
Do you Believe in Him?
Do you walk in His ways?
First of all, have you accepted Him in your life?
If He did that to all those people the righteous and unrighteous, what of you?
Believe in Him and you shall achieve.
Walk in His ways and you shall be exulted.
Run to Him, Follow Him, Seek Him, Dwell in Him, Live with Him and He will live with you, Dwell with you & Run with you.

Hallelujah

1 Peter 4:10
Each of you should use whatever GIFT you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God’s grace in its various forms.
~God created you with a PURPOSE and for a PURPOSE. It could be that your GIFT is what you have been dismissing or stopping your kid from pursuing.
-It could be singing, Dancing, Running, Speaking, Writing, Cooking, it doesn't matter in which form it is but God gave it to you to be of service to others.
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It is your time to Unleash it to the world.

"I can't give you a surefire formula for success but I can give you a formula for failure: try to please everybody all the time." Herbert Bayard Swope.
Be it in Marriage, Politics, Business, Or any other part of our lives just accept that you will be 'Unpleasant' at times (or all the times) and that does not mean you are bad but a bud that is blossoming and some people don't just like the color or the scent.
Don't change who you are to please somebody or Excuse your passion, your goals or dreams just to please somebody.

Do you see what people see in you?
A man or a woman Will look at your face, your attire, your shoes, your academic credentials, where you stay and if that's not enough they will listen to how you speak then Judge you according to how they see you. If you go by the name kelvin or Brian you are a womanizer, if you are big bodied you are a bully, if you are a quiet person you are a silent killer,,,,
How many of us have heard this statement before either from a friend or family,'Aaah you can't do it. With the way I know you, you just can't do it. Try something else.' Personally, I have heard that so many times.
George you have a good height, why can't you try looking for work at the military or play basketball stop this coaching, Marketing and writing it won't make you money until you are 45 years.
You know it's easy to give in to what people say about you more so if they are close to you and always repeating it over and over again.
If they call you stupid you start acting that way.
If they call you brave you show bravery.
Who do wanna be?
-The person other people think you can be or do you want to be the better version of yourself.
-The person who fights for what he or she wants no matter what other people say.
-The person who stands alone as long as he or she is In the right track.
*Who do you want to be THE SHEEP or THE SHEPHERD?
Do you want to just FOLLOW what other people tell you to do or do want to LEAD your life the way you like?
The choice is yours as for me I know God created me with a PURPOSE of my own.

When you are on top, there is always someone trying to pull or bring you down.
But when you are down there is noone to pull you up. Nobody knows who you might turn out to be in the future so they ignore you, assume you or Use you.
When you reach the top they will start digging your past trying to find any dirty on you because it's not easy to be SUCCESSFUL.
They ask themselves how did you do it, a man or woman from nowhere and a nobody.
It's easy to be down here and so Hard to reach at the top and most especially stay at the top.
You don't only have to work hard but smart.

Some people are born at the BOTTOM of the society like OPRAH WINFREY, growing up in abject poverty, hustling so hard to even meet the basic needs. Going to school on an empty stomach, walking long distances to school and without shoes. We never knew how our future would be.
A few were born at the TOP like KIM JONG-UN, with everything they need and want at there disposal. Their future was already planned out. They were trained at the best schools, went to the best hospitals, wore branded clothes and did everything money could afford.
BUT what matters, is it your starting point or WHERE YOU WANNA BE?
Where do you want to belong? Are you comfortable at the BOTTOM or do you want to go even HIGHER?
If OPRAH WINFREY made it to the TOP, why not you?
"YES WE CAN" Obama once said.
YES YOU CAN
YES I CAN and I will.

HER LAST HOPE.
She hoped for a flat, s*xy tummy when she approached him to trained her but instead he did just that for a couple of months and then made her pregnant.
They feel in love while working out in the Gym. He had big muscles that could tackle anything in life. He was gentle, loving so she felt secure and gave him all of herself.
Ooh, he was a Diamond that harmonized every bit of her. With him she felt her future was secure. He would fight all the battles for her. They were ment for each other they said so they married each other.
The match begun on the red corner this guy 'Mr Wendo' weighing 110kg, a degree, two MASTERS, a Gym owner/part-time trainer, tall dark and handsome guy and on the Blue corner was 'Mrs Humble' weighing 65kg, a form four leaver, upright, curvy and a BB (beauty with brains). This marriage was going to be a match to watch.
The fight begun with a Pandemic and there was Social distancing in the marriage. He was the man, a real African man and that's how he acted. He come, he saw and since he had her now. His true colors were like Corona Virus.
He didn't respect her, he did everything he would please. Leave home and return after a week without calling nor any explanation. He become violent and abusive. He was a ladies man and this was his usual behavior.
What did she do to deserve this, she wondered. One day he came home late and drunk with another woman. A scuffle ensued and her husband and her mistress ganged on her, beating her breaking her leg, spin and had a miscarriage.
Her life changed for the worst. Her family was poor to cater for her hospital. The man was so connected that he bribed his way out of jail. She was hopeless and helpless. She prayed, cried but nonetheless she was confirmed to a wheelchair.
She thought of ending her life but at that particular moment HER LAST HOPE came through. A doctor came to her and they prayed. He told her to think of the positive side to it. See how she can help other women going through the same thing.
The doctor told her she can sing about her plight in that way she can share what she went through and it will be therapeutic to her and help her heal. She did, sung, wrote books and she is now an ambassador championing women's right and happily married to the doctor.

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Be encouraged by this.

In 2010, I was a victim of a well choreographed money swindling scheme. I was falsely accused of stealing a motorcycle and I was beaten by a mob to a point of being lynched.
I was taken to Ngati Police station where I was being forced to confess that I stole that motorcycle. There was this particular officer who would always come beat me, everytime taking my fingerprints, saying my life was over and that if I was to be released I wouldn't get a wife.
As I sit down, look at my wife, kid and my life isn't yet over, my conviction and trust in My Lord grows stronger.
Your future is neither determined by what other people say about you, think about you nor wish for you. Your future is with God. You don't need to beg someone, you just need to pray to Him and believe in Him.
I'm not yet where i wanna be but I know I will be there in Jesus name.
So don't be demoralized by what people say about you, don't be stuck where you at because you believe your grandma or someone cursed or looked at you badly just believe in Him.