#you_worth_more....quote by wunmi

LOVING THE WRONG PERSON 🏃.

So many people are suffering in relationships today because they refuse to let go of the person they are currently in a relationship with.

They know the relationship isn't working, but they refuse to leave because they feel they might be able to change the person.

They believe they are willing to go to any length to ensure that the person continues to "love them".

The hardest aspect is that they are doing everything in the hopes that the person would change, even when the person has no intention of changing in the first place.

If you're in a relationship right now where the person is causing you more grief than happiness, then it's time to let them go.

Accepting that things aren't working is the best approach to avoid getting hurt more in this type of relationship.

It's crucial to admit to yourself that the relationship is in disrepair.

I see so many people that are suffering in their current relationships because they refuse to face the reality of its true nature.

If your current relationship isn't working, do me a favor and don't force it, the more you force it, the more you will end up hurting yourself in the long run.

Nobody can take your happiness away if you don't want it taken away. Your happiness is in your hands; your happiness is dependent on you.

If you don't want others to continue to mistreat you......you have the power to stop them.

Take my advice and have the courage to leave the table when respect is no longer being served.
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THIS IS WHAT I WANT FOR MYSELF
I want to rise up to a point where my mood doesn't shift based on the insignificant actions of someone else. I want to twirl myself around my fingers and treat myself like a diamond ring. I want to speak positive words into my life everyday. I want to think big. I want to think healing. I want to think peace. I want to think happiness. I want to think growth mindset.

I want to stop sending paragraphs to people who deserve nothing but dreary silence. I want to stop wondering day and night if I'm good enough for other people, and shift my focus to whether or not they're good enough for me. I want to drill it in my bones and tattoo it on my heart, that I should stop seeing the best in people who repeatedly hurt me.

I want to attract so much tranquility that literally nothing triggers me. I want to stop looking for answers...I want to start making them. I want to paint my own beautiful conclusions to bitter stories and I want to stop waiting by other people's doorsteps to paint a conclusion for me, because people don't care and I'd be waiting for a lifetime. For years on end I have been trying to find myself.

But, now, I am no longer trying to find myself. I searched for myself within lost souls, toxic lovers and broken dreams. I searched for myself in endings and beginnings. I want to stop this dejected search and rather, I want to bloom into myself, because the self that I am in search for, is already somewhere inside me.


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Not all relationship lead to marriage !!!!

𝐇𝐎𝐖 𝐓𝐎 𝐑𝐄𝐒𝐏𝐄𝐂𝐓 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑𝐒𝐄𝐋𝐅🗣❤️📚

1. Stop looking for who is not looking for you.
2. Stop begging.
3. Stop saying more than is necessary.
4. When people disrespect you, confront them immediately.
5. Don't eat other people's food more than they eat yours.
6. Reduce how you visit some people, especially if they don't reciprocate.
7. Invest in yourself. Make yourself happy.
8. Stop entertaining gossip about other people.
9. Think before you talk. 80% of how people value you is what comes out of your mouth.
10. Always look your best. Dress the way you should be addressed.
11. Be an achiever. Get busy with your goals.
12. Respect your time.
13. Don't stay in a relationship where you don't feel respected and valued. Walk away.
14. Learn to spend money on yourself. That's how people will learn to spend on you.
15. Be scarce sometimes.
16. Be a giver more than a receiver.
17. Don't go where you are not invited. And when invited, don't overstay your welcome.
18. Treat people exactly the way they deserve.
19. Except they owe you money, two call attempts are enough. If they value you, they will call you back.
20. Be good at what you do. Be the best.

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EVEN NATURE WILL GIVE WAY TO TIME

There are two things you can't cheat no matter what
They're nature and time
But the strongest amongst this two
Is time

Let me remind you of the saying
There is time for everything that is under the sun

Which means
Everything ruled by nature must bow to time

And when the season has not yet come
The implications will be bad

No matter how nature tries to make it look like you're due for some certain things
Time will always have a way to humble you..

Don't be deceived by certain natural occurrences
That makes you think you're due even when you're not..

Allow time to unfold certain things to you
While this happens
Keep preparing

Allow your preparations speak for you
And not some coincidences


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Happy father's day
To all d father's nd father to be🥳🎉🎊
May d almighty God crown ur all effort.....🤲

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DON'T TEXT YOUR EX
It doesn't allow you to heal. It doesn't matter whether the pain is physical or emotional the rules are the same. If you keep poking, prodding or messing up your injury, it's going to take a lot longer for it to heal. The best thing to do is to just let it be. You don't need to know how they are dealing with this. You need to concentrate on your healing and your peace of mind.

The instant relief is not worth it. Yes, I know you're feeling terrible, like you have a hole inside your heart which only your ex can fill. The easiest way you know to heal your pain is to have your ex back in your life, for no matter how fleeting a moment. Because that one stupid text from him/her instantly makes you feel better. But what it really does is undo all the progress you've made, strengthen the pain right after it and prolong the rough healing process.

It won't end well. Exactly how long do you expect the texting to continue? At some point, one of you is going to snap, old issues will be brought to the conversation, and you two will end up having another massive fight. And then, it's going to be like you two break up all over again, which will again make you feel like dying. That's one of the most important reasons why you shouldn't text your ex.

It will devalue you. You deserve so much more than you've been given in your last relationship. You deserve someone who's not only your significant other, but is also your best friend. Don't ever settle for anything less than what you know you can have. You are beautiful and you are so strong. You don't need to go back to the one who hurt you to heal your heart.

He/She doesn't deserve to know how you are doing. If they were the one, they wouldn't have left. You don't need to embarrass yourself trying to be there for them. Get your pieces and move. Instead of looking for closure from them to know that it's okay not to get any. Sometimes closure lies in how people treat us, not the words they say. Save your tears, you don't need to text them now.


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20 life lessons a wise man would share…

1)No One is Perfect.
The quicker this is realized the faster you can get on with being excellent. Start every morning ready to fight harder than you did the day before and run further than you ever imagine.

2)Avoid over explaining yourself.
Be confident with who you are.

3)Keep balance in your life.
Write down what’s most important to you and show up. Sometimes we tend to do the things that are most important to us when it’s written down.

4)Play the hand you were dealt.
Have the courage to face challenges head on it builds character. Start looking for a way through instead of a way out.

5)Be a student of life.
Learn something new every day. The day you stop learning is the day you become obsolete so keep learning.

6)No Excuses.
Stop making excuses replace them with ways to do better. Excuses are a waste of time and energy.

7)Let others know where you Stand.
Be uncompromising and be up front when someone steps on your core values.

8)Never be afraid of a challenge.
You put on your shoes like every other man. Now it comes down to who wants it more.

9)Service to others.
Small, simple or important be a volunteer and give the very best of you.

10)Work like hell.
Everyone has a job to do so do it. Cross every “T” and dot every “I”.

11)Discover You.
Find your passion, life purpose, and take action.

12)Don’t take it Personal.
Don’t be afraid to laugh at yourself self confidence shows that you’re comfortable in your own skin.

13)Manage your time.
Our situation and environment is ever changing so be careful not to confuse the things that are urgent with the things that are important. Look for time wasters and eliminate them.

14)Ask for help.
Life can be tough remember you never have to do it alone.

15)Do your homework.
Know what you getting into before you start. Doing your homework reduces uncertainty and fear.

16)Day Dream Often.
On the weekend when you are relaxing embrace a day dream. During the week take action to preserve your dreams.

17)Be A HERO.
Cultivate a healthy dose of forgiveness and set someone free. Learn to forgive others and stop carrying those bags of hate, guilt or regret.

18)Stay One Step Ahead.
Be proactive, Take the initiative, Brainstorm with the big picture in mind.

19)Self Love. Become your own priority. Strive to be the you, you want to be.

20)Finish what you started.
Avoid the urge to stray.


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You came naked,
You will go naked.
You arrived weak,
You will leave weak.
You came without money and things,
You will leave even without money and things.
Your first bath? Someone washed you,
Your last bath? Someone will wash you.

This is life!!!

So why so much malice, so much envy, so much hate, so much resentment, so much selfishness and so much pride?why do we have to go empty-handed?

BE KIND… We have limited time on Earth don’t waste it in uselessness.


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It is better to lose a lover than to love a loser