Benzino Brandy

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Saturday Slice Bread 🍞

Interestingly
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▪︎For every type of man there is. . . . . .There is a type of woman that complements him. 😎

And quite naturally they match each other. .👌

This is why I always say there’s no such thing as men not being s**t and the women of that space ain’t s**t too. 💁‍♂️ .No such thing as women not being s**t and the men of that space ain’t s**t too. 😒

●In any given space, the gifts and virtues of the masculine matches the feminine of that space, and so do their wounds. 🤷🏻‍♂️

Men,
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▪︎You are always the type of man that creates the type of women who show up to your field. 🤷🏻‍♂️

Women,
👇🏿
▪︎You are always the type of woman that creates the type of men that show up to your field. 🤷🏻‍♂️

🚶🏻🚶🏻‍♂️🚶🏻

●Benzino Brandy 🥃

Happy New Month ❤️

Coming from a woman o..

I hope this sends a clear message to all my Ex 😆 🤣 😂

🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♂️

●Benzino Brandy 🍵

Wet Wednesday Wisdom 🙇🏿‍♂️

Guys!

You See ehn...
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▪︎‎Sometimes when a woman rejects you...💁‍♂️, there's this fearr that grips her from her hypergamy nature.🙄
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In most cases
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▪︎‎She goes about thinking what if you hit the jack pot and make lots of m0ney? 🙄

▪︎‎What if you become so popular Or maybe you just blow in a few months or years to come? 🙄

▪︎‎What if you succeed in your dreams Or your potentials start manifesting badly? 🙄
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▪︎‎What if he ends up with a more beautiful girl than she? 🙄
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‎All these bothers them alot. 🙇🏿‍♂️
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You've got (absolutely) no clue about how much they're worr!ed & concerned about these things.🙊
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‎That is because;
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▪︎‎It's in their Hypergamy nature to pick the "Best Choice Ever" out of the men clutching around them. 🤷‍♂️
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●‎They know exactly what they are doing. ‎👌 .And so, to see that you become Great and some big dude after they've rejected you is super painful to them 🙇🏿‍♂️
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‎I mean very pa!nful. 🙇🏿‍♂️
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‎And to avoid that pa!n, 🙄
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‎Many of them wish you fa!l badly 😩 🙊 so they could feel happy and have their ego r0manced. 🤷‍♂️

●‎So they can feel relieved & relaxed and also feel justified that they made the right choices. 🤷‍♂️
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‎I tell you this for free bro;👇
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●‎The Greatest rëvēnge is showing her life became Better after she left or turned you down. ‎💁‍♂️
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Don't stay there begging to prove rrubb!sh. 💁‍♂️
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‎Class dismissed!! 🤝

‎Till I come your way again. ☺️

‎Keep Stalking this Page for more updates 🐼
‎
🏃🏃‍♀️🏃

●Benzino Brandy 🥃

Saturday Slice Bread 🍞

Listen!!
Let me say this before I forget 😌

My Friend
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You will go to Hell for mistreating people in the name of discernment. 🥺

And . .I’m not talking about an afterlife hell. 💁‍♂️
I’m talking about undesirable circumstances that meet your personal Reality. 😨

So
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●Make sure you Triple check that your discernment is actual discernment and not envy 💁‍♂️, projection, trauma; the desire to mock, cheapen, slander, gossip, or belittle; a defense mechanism to preserve a social hierarchy within a social marketplace that rates you favorably than if the full expression, reality, and presense of your target’s light would overshadow the framework of your self-concept with undeniable embodied Higher Truths that reveals harsh Truths about yourself. 😳

Oh Yes!
▪︎You will go to hell for mistreating people in the name of discernment. 🙊

●Not just mistreating people in their presence, but also mistreating the names of people behind their backs, with dark insinuations, passive aggressive comments, baseless critiques, and reframed exaggerated narratives.

▪︎It will be your employer, colleagues at work, neighbors, peers, etc.

●They will circle around you like a pack of wolves and it will appear as if they are gaining up on you about a thing you did or said. 🥺

▪︎Your romantic prospects, potential clients, leads, promises of employment/income, will ghost you. 😎

▪︎You will be tempted to blame it on racism, sexism, religious hate, collective jealousy, or some other ism.

But really? 🤔

It’s your Heart..‼️

•It’s the Energetics of your own behavior patterns meeting you. .👌😳

▪︎The same psychologically hostile environments you have inflicted on others, will be inflicted on you. 🫵

▪︎You will go to hell for mistreating people in the name of discernment. 🙇🏿‍♂️

●Before words leave your mouth,
▪︎Before you take actions,
▪︎Before you construct narratives,
▪︎Before you whisper in the ears of others, 🤔
📍
Ask yourself...if you're speaking the Pure Truth Or unconsciously practicing black magic; 🥺
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To Avoid Hell. 👀

😳 🙄 🥺 🤔

🚶🏻‍♂️🚶🏻🚶🏻‍♂️

●Benzino Brandy 🥃

Sexy Tuesday Thoughts 📍

Hey Rasta

I still can't remember If i have said this more than once or twice (before)🤷🏻‍♂️
📍
But let me repeat myself again,
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How many of you know that the wedding industry is quite Very HUGE. 🙊

Oh Yes!
📍
Don't get it Twisted because...
You have the:
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•DJ
•MC
•Caterer
•Live Band
•Cake Baker
•Dress Maker
•Event Centre
•Photographer
•Wedding Planner
•Wedding IV and Brochure Printer
Etc

While
The Marriage Industry is very SMALL. 🥺
📍
You have just;
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•You
And
•Your Spouse

Nothing More Nothing Less 🤷🏻‍♂️

Hmm! Rasta
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I want you to start Investing (your hard earned money) in yourself..👌
Not in strangers that impact your wedding.., but have no impact on your marriage...🤷🏻‍♂️

You See
▪︎When you enter marriage in debt...🙊 .It can lead to the death of that marriage 🙇🏿‍♂️

▪︎I need not say more Than This 🤷🏻‍♂️

But you can Thank me Later if you Resonate with this Thoughtful Message 🪸☘️

🚶🏻🚶🏻‍♂️🚶🏻

●Benzino Brandy 🥃

Sexy Saturday Sauce 😊

Interestingly

We live In a society where women believe that they are automatically the victims because they are women. 🥺

Oh Yes!!

▪︎Whatever the situation is between them, 👉🏿the man is always at fault. 🤷🏻‍♂️

●She will cheat and still blame it on her man.
She will get angry and aggressive and call it his fault. 🤷🏻‍♂️

●Majority of the men in our society today are not as vocal as the women..... So, in most cases it is the women who often control the narrative. 🤷🏻‍♂️

●Women associate men with words like narcissist, gaslighting, manipulative, controlling , domineering etc because they believe these are generally masculine traits. 🤷🏻‍♂️

Funny Enough 😁
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●Most of these Women don’t even know the meaning of narcissism....yet they always call their men narcissists. 🤣 🙊

▪︎Women continue to play the victim card... instead of reflecting on how they can also do much better. 🤷🏻‍♂️

To Me
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●It takes two matured minds to make a marriage work out 🤷🏻‍♂️
And so,
Because you're a woman, you're not exempted, 🤷🏻‍♂️
Being female doesn't automatically excuse nor exonerate you. 🤷🏻‍♂️


▪︎Stop the gaslighting
▪︎Stop the manipulation
▪︎Stop playing the victim game.

●There's no way you're part of that relationship or marriage and your finger prints is never on any issues in that affair 🤷🏻‍♂️

●Think back at when you disrespected him, when you lied to him, deceived him with your dirty games, called him names, walked out on him, hiss at him, cut the call on him or even gave him silent treatment..

●Think back at when you cheated in that relationship, when you closed your legs and denied him his right (in that marriage), when you manipulated the narratives, when you kept those dirty secrets, contacting your ex, hanging out with other men for trips & money, entertaining your admirers, 🤔

Think about when you didn't perform your feminine roles in the relationship or at home etc

●You're female but that doesn't make you innocent. 🤷🏻‍♂️

In most cases, women are the very cause of the issues at home.....but they always like to cry out to their families and friends while playing the victim. 🙊

My dear
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Think
Reflect
And
Get Better.

Men are not fools...
They know when you're playing games....but they just choose to let it slide....

A word is Enough for the Wise...

🚶🏻‍♂️🚶🏻🚶🏻‍♂️

●Benzino Brandy 🥃