Peace nails

It's your job to be a good parent.
It is not your job to ensure vour ex is one.
That's on them.

One day the phone stops ringing.
The random calls disappear.
The visits become rare.
The connection fades.
And some parents sit there wondering what happenea.
But relationships with children don't break overnignt.
They slowly fade through missed moments, unanswered calls, emotional distance, and lack of presence.
Children remember who was there consistently.
Not just financially.
Emotionally.
If you want a place in their future, be present in their childhood.

I cannot stand grown mean women,

We are not 16 anymore,
Life has already humbled most of us,
Some women are battling heartbreak,
Some are rebuilding after divorce,
Some are barely surviving mentally,
Some are carrying trauma nobody knows about.
So imagine being fully grown
and still choosing gossip, jealousy, exclusion, and cruelty.
That's not power.
That's pain.
Strong women do not bond by tearing another woman apart.
Strong women uplift.
They encourage.
They clap for each other even when it's not their season.
And honestly?
If making another woman feel small gives you satisfaction...
you need healing, not an audience.
Go to therapy.
Work it out.
Heal what makes you cruel.
Because life is already hard enough.
Women should not have to survive other women too.

you really don't realize how much a person sets you back until you no longer deal with them anymore. the weight lifted off ur shoulders is undeniable. suddenly, u're left wondering how u tolerated the stress for so long. sometimes ppl not being in ur life is blessing in disguise.

If she asks about it, she knows about it, So don't lie about it.

A message every woman needed years ago,

You do not owe the world an explanation for your timeline.
Not for your body.
Not for motherhood
Not for marriage.
Not for aging.
Not for healing.
Not for choosing yourself.
People will judge a woman for almost everything:
Too early.
Too late.
Too much.
Too little.
So stop pausing your happiness waiting for public approval.
Because the same people criticizing you today... would still criticize you if you changed tomorrow.
Protect your peace.
Romanticize your life.
And love yourself without asking permission.
If this spoke to you, leave a to see this today
for another woman

The saddest thing about disrespect is...

It usually comes from people who know exactly what they're doing.
At a certain age, I don't argue.
1 observe.
I detach.
And I upgrade my life without you in it.

That man caught one little flu and realized side chicks don't make soup "

A lot of bitter co-parenting situations start when one person realizes they can no longer control the other.

I feel uncomfortable around tall ppl, what If they lick my head