Eldernet

Staying connected can make a real difference.

For older people, having something to look forward to, people to talk with, and a reason to get out can support wellbeing, confidence and a sense of belonging.

That is where Social Groups, Kaumātua groups and Day Programmes can help.

SOCIAL GROUPS bring people together through shared activities, outings, interests and friendship.

KAUMĀTUA GROUPS can offer culturally grounded connection through kōrero, kai, support, activities and whanaungatanga.

DAY PROGRAMMES are usually more structured and may include activities, meals, transport, daytime support, and a regular break for carers or whānau.

Each one is a little different, and the right fit will depend on the person, their interests, their needs, and what feels welcoming.

“Live the age you feel.”

This line from our latest article stayed with us.

It is a thoughtful reminder that ageing is not only about the years behind us, but also about the future we still imagine for ourselves.

Hope can be found in small, ordinary things — a new library book, breakfast at a favourite café, a game of Scrabble, or a trip to the beach.

Because looking forward matters at every age.

Read the full article here:
https://substack.com/home/post/p-202069450

When we talk about later-life living, retirement villages often get a lot of attention — but they are only one part of the picture.

Only around 14% of people aged 75+ live in a retirement village. That means the majority are living somewhere else: at home, with family, with support, or in other settings.

Our latest substack article looks at the different options available, and why finding the “right” place looks different for everyone.

Read the article here: https://substack.com/home/post/p-200564895

We’d also love to hear from you. If you’re over 65, where do you currently live?

1. At home, alone or with a partner
2. At home with family
3. At home with care or support
4. In a retirement village
5. In residential care

Elder abuse is often hidden — and sadly, it can involve family members.

📣 This week is Elder Abuse Awareness Week, and at Eldernet we’re helping raise awareness through our social media, posters in our office windows, and updated email signatures.

Age Concern New Zealand supported more than 3,000 older people in abuse cases last year. And research has also shown that around 10% of New Zealanders over 65 living in the community experience abuse.

Elder abuse does not always look obvious. It can look like pressure, control, neglect, isolation, financial manipulation, or someone taking advantage of an older person.

It can be difficult to talk about. It can be even harder to recognise when it is happening quietly, behind closed doors, or within families.

But noticing something early matters.

If something does not feel right, don’t wait for it to build. Call the national helpline 0800 32 668 65 or 111 if someone is in immediate danger.

⭐ Older people deserve to live with dignity, safety and respect.

💬 Have you cared for someone??

Carers are the backbone of our communities. Every day, people quietly support loved ones through illness, disability, and frailty — often without recognition.

We believe research that listens to carers’ honest thoughts and feelings is incredibly important.

The Wāhi Kōrero project (Massey University) is creating a safe, anonymous space for people across Aotearoa to share their real stories.

Their latest project is:
👉 “I have provided care for someone. These are the thoughts and feelings I keep to myself.”

If you’ve supported someone with illness, disability, or frailty, this is your chance to speak openly about your experience — the parts you don’t always say out loud.

🧡 Your story matters
🧡 Your voice deserves to be heard
🧡 Your experience can help shape better understanding and support

Take part via the link, or share it with anyone who provides care — their voice is vital.
https://wahikorero.co.nz/projects/i-have-provided-care-for-someone/

Ngā mihi nui 💛

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New Zealand Red Cross is celebrating 75 years of Meals on Wheels in Aotearoa this month—and it’s a milestone worth pausing for.

Because this isn’t just a meal delivery service. It’s one of the quiet systems that helps people keep living in their own homes—well, nourished, and connected.

💬 To mark the moment, we asked our team: what would you make for someone who needed it?

The answers?

Shepherd’s pie, lasagne (with garlic bread, of course), chilli con carne, quiche, big pots of soup. Comfort food. Meals you can enjoy now—or freeze for a day when cooking feels just a bit too hard.
N.B Picture are staff's own 😃

And some great practical tips too: use recyclable containers, or take over a dish you don’t need back (op shop finds are perfect). No pressure—just pass it on when you’re done.

It’s simple, but that’s the point.

For 75 years, Meals on Wheels volunteers have been delivering more than food—they’ve been delivering care, connection, and a reason to open the door. 👏 ⭐

(Link to the full article is in the comments 👇)

A quick question: When was the last time you checked your KiwiSaver?

KiwiSaver has been making headlines recently, so we took the opportunity to discuss it during a recent staff meeting.

Not to provide financial advice, but as a reminder that many of us set things up years ago and never revisit them.

Things to check:
• what percentage you're contributing
• what fund you're invested in
• whether it's still aligned with your goals and circumstances

One of the biggest takeaways from the session was that KiwiSaver doesn't have to be complicated. Many people assume reviewing their settings or making changes will be difficult, when often it's much simpler than they expect.

We're fortunate to work in a team that encourages learning and conversations about topics that can have a long-term impact on our lives.