The Abby Way

Dear self, after 5 years I will make you proud 👌

“DO NOT GO ABROAD“

• Don't go abroad if you are not confident.
• Don't go abroad if you can't endure and sacrifice.
• Don't go abroad if you can't persevere.
• Don't go abroad if you are not strong.
• Don't go abroad if you are just complaining.
• Don't go abroad if you can't eat your pride.
• Don't go abroad if you can't bear the sadness.
• Don’t go abroad if you are weak.
• Don't go abroad if you don't know how to approach.
• Don't go abroad if you are not sure why you are going abroad.

You may not be the kind of person mentioned above, there’s nothing wrong if you try. You will get used to it. The culture, language, the people, everything is new and different. Do not lose hope and just believe in yourself!

BE PREPARED FOR THE NEW JOURNEY YOU WILL TAKE.
Physically. Mentally. Spiritually.

Life abroad is never for the faint heart. You’ll be out of your comfort zone - out of the familiar, safe place you’re used to.

Here, the life of your sorrow will eat you up; you will cry suddenly for no apparent reason.
You’ll get frustrated a lot of times.

You can't help but compare your life then in the Philippines with your life now here abroad. You’ll even start giving up on yourself. And you’ll start questioning if you’ve really made the right decision.

You will adjust-to a new life, a new environment, a new person, and a new job.

If you were in the Philippines, you were the boss and you were already at the top, here you will start again at the bottom.

If you apply pride, nothing will happen in your life. Not everyone is lucky enough to find a good job with a big salary.

The others, have graduated and been able to work in a good company in the Philippines but when they come here they will be able to enter any job - factory worker, waiter, driver, receptionist, kitchen assistant, saleslady and others.

Here, it doesn’t matter what your job is; the important thing is that you support your family with every shipment you make. ♥ ️


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Hello! My name is Avegail Españo. I am a determined and hardworking individual who values personal growth, family, and positivity in life. I strive to improve myself every day while balancing responsibilities and pursuing my goals. People often know me as approachable, supportive, and someone who always tries to bring encouragement to others

I believe in perseverance, kindness, and the importance of learning from every experience.

"I am both the shelter and the storm. I’m learning, I’m growing, and I’m doing it all for them. They may not see my struggles, but they will always feel my love."

🍌 QUICK BANANA CAKE RECIPE

Here’s a quick and easy banana cake recipe you can whip up fast

Ingredients:

2 cups all-purpose flour

1 teaspoon baking powder

¼ teaspoon salt

5 ripe bananas, mashed

¾ cup sugar

2 large egg

⅓ cup vegetable oil or melted butter

1 teaspoon vanilla extract

1 cup of milk

Toppings I used ,peanuts and dark chocolate

Instructions:

Preheat oven to (200°C).but I used airfryer Grease a loaf pan I used foil and mold in the airfryer pan ( I don't have a loaf pan)😅😅

In a large bowl, mash the bananas well.

Add sugar, egg, butter and vanilla. Mix until combined.

Sprinkle the flour, baking powder, and salt over the banana mixture. Stir gently just until combined.

Pour batter into the prepared pan.

I steamed for 30 mins to cook it fast and save electricity 😅😅

Bake for 20 minutes, or until brown, toothpick inserted in the center comes out clean.

Cool before slicing and serving.

It's better to cut off someone in your life whose bringing you heartache and pain--kahit 10years of friendship pa yan. It's not easy, you'll cry about it over and over esp pag binigay mo lahat sa tao na yun at minahal mo siya wholeheartedly and you've already decided that you want her to be part of your life (existence ) then suddenly you have to cut them off... Not because you wanted to yet, because that's what you need to do. It's super hard to make that decision. I've been there, I cut off best friend of mine;I still cry about it sometimes but day by day I realise that not all people meant to join you on your journey.

But now I'm happy and I have a peaceful mind without them❤️
Sumasabay sa agos ng buhay,at lumalaban sa buhay ng mag Isa❤️
At masasabi ko na.

KAYA KO PALA NG WALA SILA ❤️

Welcome to The Abby Way 🌺 a space where motherhood meets motivation, and dreams don’t get left behind.
I’m Abby a mom on a mission to chase big dreams, build a life with purpose, and show my daughter what strength, love, and belief look like. Here, I will share daily inspiration, honest reflections, and powerful quotes for moms who are growing, healing, and rising , not just for their kids, but for themselves too.

This is my journey. This is my love letter to her. Chasing my dreams, raising love, and inspiring mamas one day at a time.

This is

The Abby Way.