Pamy Vee
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05/02/2020
Darn it! I made a mistake!
Or a million...
It is completely normal to make mistakes in life, no matter what the journey is
I quit my job and jumped in a joint business with a friend while still in school and in charge of supporting myself 😬
I was so scared but the 🔥 fire, drive, and motivation outweighed my fears
But I didn’t realize that in order to build something you need to do it for yourself ONLY.
Do you ever feel like sometimes it is easier to help others than help yourself?
I always relied on other people to need me, to ask me for help, because that was my number one motivator
After a year of “banging my head on a wall” I realized that it was time to start loving, helping and doing things for myself as well as use my own happiness as my motivator
When I love and believe in someone it suddenly became very hard for me to establish boundaries and say no.
I ended up burnt out, exhausted and felt used by everyone!
Then I finally realized that I can be the one to provide myself with:
-love
-acceptance
-practice self-help
-believe in myself
The problem was me, I was the one that was enabling it to continue, offering or accepting assignments that I knew weren’t going to benefit me...
So now I strive every day to:
-set boundaries
-to only take on mutually beneficial deals
-to respect myself
Make sure you make room for the great things coming to you and avoid occupying all of your time with horrible, bad, decent or merely good deals.
You deserve the best, you just have to believe it.
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05/01/2020
“Whatever you are not changing, you are choosing” - Laurie Buchanan
04/26/2020
"The beautiful souls are they that are universal, open, and ready for all things." - Michel de Montaigne
Thank you Pamy Vee for a "glimpse" through my lens.
04/26/2020
“Your past doesn’t equal your future”
-Tony Robbins
If you would have told me 10 years ago that I would have been here in the U.S., have earned a degree, and have embarked on this journey of starting a business of my own, I would have told you you were totally nuts!
I used to put myself down and limit my options because I didn’t believe in myself.
Today, no one can tell me what I am not capable of.
I am driven like never before, I choose to be a go-getter and strive to achieve my dreams and I am so freaking grateful to be where I am at!
Do you truly believe in your ability to achieve your dreams?
DM me if you need to sort through your thoughts 🤗
04/25/2020
ARE YOU FEELING INSECURE OR LEFT BEHIND?
It is human nature to benchmark and compare where you stand in comparison to others.
When you first start something, you are overflowing with ideas, energy, and enthusiasm....but as the excitement wears off, it is easy to start looking into what has worked for others on your same journey.
..for most that leads to a downward spiral of insecurity, negative self-talk, and feelings of inadequacy.
So what do you do?
You obviously need to work harder! If it worked for them, it must work for you too! ...right?!?
Sure, until reality sets in and you start asking yourself;
-I keep working my a*s off to get ahead, but still, NOTHING is happening?
-What am I doing wrong?
-What are they doing that I did not do?
-Why are they successful and I am not?
Do you want to know what they did?
They stayed in their own lane and focused all of their attention on what they were trying to get done...
Don't question yourself or your talent just because you are not in the same place as someone else is right now.
It is NOT a race, YOU ARE EXACTLY WHERE YOU NEED TO BE RIGHT NOW!!
Just keep MOVING FORWARD and do what you have to do right NOW until you reach your own version of SUCCESS!!
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04/24/2020
Let me ask you one thing…
..if all you got to do today is ALL you got to get done…
-Would you be satisfied? -Would it take you a step closer to your END goal?
If the answer is no…
you want to focus MORE on being productive and effective, and LESS on the tasks that are time fillers.
Stop wasting time writing a million emails, attending useless meetings, scrolling online for hours for “market research”, and doing things that make you look/feel busy.
Focus more on building rapport with your clients, doing tasks that show clear ROI, and things that make you feel proud and fulfilled.
*BONUS* if you are more productive, you’ll get to go straight from the office to relaxing at the pool without compromising your work/ life balance.
Comment below and double tap if you could use some time to relax too!
04/19/2020
Start before you are ready and put yourself out there to fight for your dreams even if that means risking to embarrass yourself or not doing it right the first time around
I much rather be able to laugh about my mistakes when I get old, than regret not having taken the chance to go for it.
Double-tap if you agree
04/18/2020
Behind the scenes on a little adventure in the wild 📸w/____justinet
04/17/2020
Are you freaking tired to do it all and have no time left to enjoy yourself?
Start delegating what you are not good at and automate everything you possibly can.
When you do that, you will not only see faster ROI to each of your efforts but you’ll also be able to better enjoy your life.
Comment below what is your best-kept secret when it comes to automating tasks!
04/12/2020
“Focus on being productive rather than busy” -Tim Ferris
Wake up early & crush your goals first thing!
I felt so burnt out with my lifestyle
There have been so many times in the past that I over judged, self-doubted and literally stalled myself by getting in my own damn way
I kept asking myself:
-Why am I always exhausted!?
-Why can’t I just be faster/ get more done!?
And by being this hard to myself, I would be left feeling “paralyzed” and not able to get anything done at all
What good has it ever brought me?
-Have I gotten any more of my work done by acting this way!?
-Could I focus the energy I use to stress/ overthink into actually getting work done!?
- If I felt happier in my own life would I be able to be more efficient and productive!?
I think you know the answers to all of those questions.
So why waste time, even just for another second on something that is not working towards your end goal?
Save up that energy to put it towards the FOCUS of being PRODUCTIVE over the right things instead of busy with all the wrong things!
Don’t overwhelm yourself with a million worries and little tasks that will get you nowhere.
Start with the biggest task that only YOU can do and for the rest ask for help or don’t worry about them until the most important task is out of the way.
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04/11/2020
STOP asking for advice when you find yourself at a crossroads!
..mainly if the person who you are asking obviously doesn’t have a clue!
Deep down we usually know exactly what is best for us and what we should be doing.
The only reason why we are asking for advice in the first place is to get validation that we are right in thinking that.
But what most don’t realize, is that if our own views aren’t universally shared, it doesn’t mean that they are not the right thing to do!
People will give you their advice based on THEIR views, THEIR experiences, and THEIR fears.
We each have individual perceptions of how we view each situation we are in, why would you trust someone else over your own instincts?
Double tap if this helped 💗
04/10/2020
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