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kotis I lost my temper yesterday so me and my daughter were coming from plaza when we hicked local avanza,we got in,and after I realised it was my baby daddy driving alright cool,I took out R24 for both me and my daughter and paid,after a few minutes he turned the mirror and called Katlego (daughter) alright I didn't care,mind you my daughter is 6 and we broke up when she was 1 yeah!fast forward,he started bragging telling everyone that you see how well dressed and beautiful my baby is? that's because I'm taking care of her I'm not a springbok,I sat there quite with tears I'm my eyes looking at him talking all the credit that he didn't earn then he said even this month I'm increasing the child support money to 4000 everyone was cheering and applauding him,one old woman noticed my tears and she asked me what's wrong that's were I bust in tears threw my phone at him unfortunately I broke the windscreen I didn't say a word he also did not ask because he knew why I did that,the people called me bitter and the owner of the car was called I was demanded to pay 1500 thats when I told them what triggered my emotions
I told them the last time he bought clothes for our daughter was when I was still pregnant and there was a time when my daughter was sick I called him and asked for a 100 for transportation to clinic he told me I should go to hell le ngwana nyana waka, that's when I decided to cut him off so he cannot walk around telling people he pays child support

well the windscreen needed to be fixed anyways so I told him that from the R4000 that he was going to send he should give the owner 1500 and keep the change

but now I feel so bad about myself like why did I drag myself to his level😔🥺😢 someone tell me I was not wrong because I feel so bad
and I know he did all that because he knew I wasn't going to say anything I just don't like talking but I lost it yesterday 😞

Hey sisters, I need your thoughts on these...
I'm a Tsonga and I've never dated outside my tribe before. My brother's dating a Pedi girlfriend ,she is rude and mistreats him in front of us. She doesn't cook, clean, or take care of her kids. She has 2, one for my brother, she even follows him to work, during weekends when she's home she cooks her own separate food and lock it inside their room.We had a family meeting and she shouted and insulted us, saying she's better than us because she's dating a lawyer and has a degree, and in my family majory of us has degrees. I'm worried about my brother, he's a disciplined person and I don't know why he's letting her treat him like this...is this how pedi people behave...

People rush you to marry young because wisdom asks harder questions.

When you are young, love feels magical. You believe in forever without needing proof. You think chemistry is enough. You think feelings will carry you through everything. Marriage looks like a dream, a fairytale, a milestone you are supposed to reach before a certain age. Everyone around you says do it now, before you think too much.

But as you grow older, something changes. You start paying attention. You notice red flags faster. You understand how expensive peace is. You realize love is not just butterflies, it is responsibility, emotional maturity, shared values, and long term effort. And once you see that clearly, you cannot unsee it.

A wise person does not reject marriage because they hate love. They question it because they understand it. They know marriage is not just a wedding day. It is waking up next to the same person for years. It is choosing patience during arguments. It is handling money stress, family drama, and life pressure together. Wisdom makes you careful about who you tie your future to.

So maybe it is not about marrying young before you get wise. Maybe it is about becoming wise enough to choose the right partner. Because marriage is beautiful when it is built on understanding, not urgency. And the real goal is not to marry early. It is to marry right.

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